I need advice!! I went through my boyfriendβs phone because I felt as if he was distancing himself. I noticed he had been talking to his ex. However, I do not know what to make of it. He was calling her βmy loveβ and even told her he loved her. HOWEVER, they donβt talk every day. he was talking to her about me and she even sent pics of her and her boyfriend. Idk what to thinkβ¦please helpβ¦
Also, her bf obviously found something wrong with their conversations. He made her stop talking to my bf. but my bf told her that she wasnβt going anywhere no matter what.
Aaron Kirk @ap1111
A conversation need to be had for sure
Run from there how fast you can.
This isnβt the kind of relationship you wanna be in sweetie
Mango @mangoice
Hes obsessed with his ex, and you need to get obsessed with yourself. Realize that you donβt need anyone who is sneaking around behind your back, hes stuck in the past and you are the present and future honey. Dump him, it will be hard and its gonna hurt but you will end up better
How long have you guys been together for
four yearsβ¦I just moved 8 and a half hours to be with him
And heβs getting in touch with his ex just now? Or he has always been in touch?
he told me he doesnβt talk to her. He talks very bad about her to me all the time.
First red flag is a person talking bad about his ex and blaming them for whatever went down. Second red flag telling someone else that he loves them and wonβt let goβ¦I know itβs been four years and would take a lot for you to reverse stuff. But looks like he was stuck in the past all along. If you guys are young and still have time run from there. If you are too emotionally invested, confront him
what do I even say? Iβm not a confrontational person, so this is hard for me.
I understand. But in this case do you feel like you canβt confront only him or people in general
People in general.
I mean u wonβt have peace of mind till you try. Maybe watch some vids how to confront people
Exactly. If you donβt have something helpful to say then donβt say anything at all
I think he is v confused on his own. Please confront him and ask him to be honest w you. Let him take his time and if itβs still worth it, you can go for it but I wouldnβt recommend
Hey, How are you doing now? and How is life in large?