I need a genuine advice. I am preparing for a competitive exam that needs all my focus and time and I just don’t wanna feel any sort of human emotions which is so impractical but I feel like I suck at handling them . I have lost alot of friends since I entered 11th, haven’t attended even a single birthday party , had deleted my socials too for while . Now there’s someone I have a very genuine connection with, we’re good friends not really dating or something but like there is something. We were having our issues so we didn’t talk for a while but slowly things are getting better and I wanna stick to him because I cannot just abandon him like this . He understands that I get busy but I’m sure he feels bad too and so do I because from talking atleast 3-4 hours a day , we barely talk Ab . But it’s clearly the most important year of my life and I’ve got to focus on my goals first . So is it okay if we just a share a few words on weekdays but I can actually just talk to him till late on Saturday? Like idk I feel confused. Because if I just delete everything and stay away from everyone, I begin to feel a lil lonely and it just sucks .
What should I do exactly ?
Nan <3 @blessed_soul17
I can understand very well. I’m in the same situation rn. I took a drop this year in November and now jee mains is in January so I got only 3 months. I am studying all day long cos just like you, my goals are very much imp to me. I am dating this guy I had a massive crush on four years but now I am not even talking to him bc of time issues. The last time we messaged each other was on Dec 20 and even before that I was replying to him once in 3-4 days. I have asked him to wait for me but Ik it’s hard for him. He literally messaged me saying~“Not talking to you for a day feels so depressing that I can’t even explain” After reading this message it was so hard for me to not talk to him but at this point I just can’t afford to be in a relationship as it’s my last chance to prove myself. In the end, I’m sure I’ll get an amazing college next year cos I know I’m working very hard for it but I also know this that we’re gonna break up (just a gut feeling).
My advice to you: Talking for a few minutes on weekdays and then for long hours on saturdays isn’t a bad idea if you’re sure it’s not gonna distract you. It’ll be hard but once you let him go he’ll not come back again…if he’s really important to you then don’t lose him. My case is different but ig if you want then you can take out some time for him from your busy schedule. Just make sure that you know your limits…the second you feel like you are going the wrong way…just cut him off and focus on yourself. In the end of the day, it’s you who matters. Don’t stress…whichever exam you’re preparing for, I hope you get your desired rank and marks.
Heyyy thankyou so much for this . I’m preparing for jee 2024 , makes us really similar. Good luck to you, I’m sure you’re gonna do well💛
Nan <3 @blessed_soul17
Thankyouuu for your good wishes. Means a lot <3
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