I moved in with my bf to get away from my toxic parents. We agreed that due to my mental health I wouldn’t get a job until around may 2022, but if he needed me to get one sooner he would let me know ahead of time. Well, yesterday he pretty much told me that his brother (who lives with us) is mad that I don’t have a job and that I have to get one within a week. I’m so stressed out. Idk what to do. I’m trying and putting in applications consistently but I have anxiety. I’m scared that I won’t be able to get one soon enough. I dunno…
Well first of all it doesn’t sound right for his brother to intervene between what you and your boyfriend agreed on. And he shouldn’t let himself be influenced by his brother. I mean… as long as the rent and bills and whatnot are being paid, I don’t see why his brother is meddling in your affairs
You have to be independent if you’re living with bf I guess being wife is different than being gf. But if someone else is coming between your relation your bf was supposed to answer back instead of letting you know. He’s not a good one. Move on.
I dont mind having a job, its just the way he went about it.