I miss her. I miss her a lot. She cheated on me, I know I should completely forget her. But it's not in my power. I miss her too much. I loved her too much.

My mannnn, don't do this to yourself!!!!!!

it's okay to miss her. but you have to get over her. you deserve better


It's not worth it man! Been through it, she's not  worth it

Relationships

Hey! Today i am feeling very depressed! There is a girl in my office! I know her from january! At the first second when i saw her! I was really attracted to her. But after that i get to know that she is from another branch. After a long gap i just met her in her branch but because of nervous i couldnt have a good conversation with her! Later i got her instagram and we got connected we had a really good time! After i get to know about her jovial character i was really got impressed! Actually someone from my team is also trying to talk and impress the girl! Recently we are not talking that much and today i got a news like she is interested in that guy from our same team! I am getting sad after get to know about this! I really dont understand why i am getting this feeling! My heart is feeling so heavy! Moreover i felt like this girl is the reason for me to join the office. I thought to ask that to the girl itself but i am scared that it will become awkward! I really dont want to ruin the current state with that girl! I cant handle this tension! My mind is thinking about the possibilities of that girl with that guy! Suggest me please

Depression

no one wants to be with me, and I have hurt the heart of the only girl who wants to be with me. I regret my actions. She is smart, pretty, kind, why do i did that to her. I fucked up.  

3am Thoughts

My girlfriend flew with her mom and brother to her home country to visit her family and see her friends. I thought everything will be okay but then on the third day she's there she just disappeared off the grid and her mom was trying to find her at 2 am while she was at a  guy friend's house, whom she didn't see for 5 years, house after they spend the day drinking somewhere. I got too worried and I started to get very paranoid thoughts about what she could be doing there. The next day I made the mistake of telling her not to see him again after she saw him once since she arrived to her home country. After that she decided that wants to take a break and I couldn't do anything about it because I messed up and I'm like 5000 miles away. Now I don't know where she is or what she does and I am hurting very badly. I love her so much and I really don't want to lose her. She comes back in three weeks and that's when she said she will be ready to talk. I don't know what to do and how to stop this emotional pain right now, I can't sleep or eat or even work, I can't stop thinking about her and if everything will be okay😭 I really want everything to be okay, she's the only one I want forever.

Breakup

Me(23M) and my girlfriend(23F) started dating 9 months ago.  We were PG mates. We finished our college 8 months ago. She's 700 km away from my home. Due to the long distance we kinda had a fair amount of bumps in our love life. Last October my dog got sick with CDV ( it's like AIDS for dogs, untreatable).  I was taking my dog for almost all the big veterinary hospitals in Chennai but nothing worked. Due to all the traveling I couldn't talk to my girlfriend. After a long heavy run I had to put my dog to sleep (euthanasia), It was the hardest choice for me. 
After that, for a week she and I connected to our love again. But this time I felt that she was kinda distant. I was really in a bad mental health cause of my dog's loss (she was my whole world). 
The second week I got a job in Assam, I desperately needed a break from my dog and my distant girlfriend so I took the job and went to Assam for 21 days. 
After coming back from Assam she was more distant from me. That made my mental health even worse. I kept asking her, she said she's fine. But I know she was not.  A month has passed. 
After that, this time I got a job for another state. And I told her to use this 21 days to see what went wrong in our relationship. She said okay.  While I was working on a job she was busy with her family gathering and trips and long bike rides.
 I returned on Feb 14 which was my birthday she didn't  reply to me. So I got mad and said some things which I'm not proud of. She got angry and said she needs one week of time. After a week she said again I need one week to think.
 I wanted to communicate with her for the whole four months but she always said TEXT ME. Always cut my calls. Avoided problem solving calls. 

Due to all the trips and bike rides she got a cold infection which put her into the hospital. Now she says, I will talk to you once I get to my home. 

Honestly guys, I don't know what did I do wrong with her ?. I apologized for my bad behaviour. I constantly overthink about her. All my friends say, try to be patient with her. But i don't know how ?? 

BTW, she was raised by good loving parents and I was raised by verbally abusive parents. I really wanted to create my own family with her. But it seems like I'm wrong.


when relationship becomes toxic, there's no way out except breakup and i've learned this the hard way. i'd been friends with this person for 2 years and i realized that i like her a lot, so much that i couldn't sleep peacefully cuz i'll be thinking of her. i confessed, she said she likes me back and we were together. with time, we started getting busy with our things, we both went to different cities for our studies but sharing our day was a constant thing, until one day she didn't. I asked if everything alright on her end or not, she didn't replied cuz okay studies and all. 
our tradition was vanished and i was bit annoyed and maybe insecure too. we started talking less, our ideologies towards different things started diverging and we constantly started fighting on god knows what kinda shits, overall toxicity was increasing and when relationship becomes toxic, one starts feeling regret if relationship generates after friendship because if this falls apart, friendship's also gone. so, back to the story, i tried contacting her daily which now i see as my stupidity where i forgot her space and tried to include myself in every possible way. few weeks later, we broke up, i cried, she cried(maybe) and we lost our good years for ever. 

now i wonder if this is how others feel when relationship becomes toxic, the urge to just leave everything, a slight urge to take some kinda revenge on their rude, ignorant behaviour, the remorse of not being a good person to not just manage a relationship but to atleast keep the toxicity out of it.

There is a girl i ignored her messages cause i didn't wanted to get too close but after 5 days i replied but it's been 4 days she didn't replied cause she is not online and now i am concern bout her and i know her bestfriend's  ID  so should i message her bestfriend to ask bout her.
Her bestfriend don't know me 

Confusion

So basically I love this girl and I want our relationship to last forever what should I do?

Love

Okay so my boyfriend's elder brother has a girlfriend who is from another state. She once visited our hometown and we hung out along with my boyfriend and hers. She was really nice to me. I felt like she is an open book kinda person, is innocent and cheerful. I only met her for two days then she went back to her city. Since then she only texted me once. I always text her from my side to which she responds very coldly which is weird because I saw her another version in person. This has happened multiple times where I texted her first. She replies very shortly then our conversation ends. I still adored her through her posts & all and always thought she may not like to text a lot. But yesterday when I texted her and told her that I miss her, she asked "why?" Then I answered "ofc we didn't get to spend much time together, don't you miss me?" to which she replied "No, I am quite busy with my studies, no time to miss you." I was really hurt by this statement. Then she said "just kidding, don't get offended" . I replied " I am offended, go study now". She replied "yea" 
I don't understand why! I am seeing her posting on social media but while texting me she's busy. It's actually my fault that I got emotionally attached with a person who I only met once or twice. I don't even know her. Just wanted to be friends with her before coming together into a family.

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