I met this guy who is 15 years older to me. ( me being 20 ) he is a navy officer whose travelled all over the country and overseas ass well. I met him in a conference. His personality caught my eye. We conversed a litte and exchanged our numbers.
Now we’ve been texting ( A little cheesy)
But I don’t know if I’m doing right
I mean I feel I am naive and maybe …
I don’t know.
ps. He is new to the city. As he’s been posted few weeks back.
Sarkaari naukari hai uske paas
Make sure he isn’t with you just for s*x. Spend more time about knowing him rather being romantic. You will get to know his true intentions.
Nyx @lost_not_found
Your mentalities may not match at some point of time. Just giving you a heads up.
Military guys are never serious about girls…I know you think he’s different etc etc…but focus on yourself rn…imagine someone getting attracted to someone so young…focus on studies
Take your time and use your brain before getting into something serious. First of all make sure he is not married already or dating already. Know his background though you can never totally know about a person more than what they portray in such cases. Secondly, don’t get physical right away if its a big deal for you. Third, there must be difference in ideologies, priorities and thoughts. Get to know all of that. Fourth, he has inflow of money, he has travelled and will be changing places in future too, so no guarantee of him being serious (in most cases). Fifth, try to say no or show denial to some of his demands or things he is saying. See his reaction. He should be okay with your boundaries and just not trying to be a sugar daddy to you.
