I met this guy a year back on Instagram. He was nothing like the guys I had known, a complete stranger who also needed some emotional support and a little push. I gave him that, as I would for anyone. Months went by and he actually became an important person in my life. But sometimes, he’d be quite toxic, leave me on read, go MIA out of the blue. But what bothered me the most was him flirting consistently when he knew that I wasn’t a huge fan of it. He fell for me. And I had to push him away. We did get back again but I strictly told him to not expect anything from me but that obviously didn’t work out and I realized that we could never be ‘just friends’ on his side. I left him because I didn’t want him to fall even harder. It felt like the right thing to do. I miss him so badly. I feel like unblocking him and checking on him but that would be selfish of me. I really need him rn.
MetaLife @thoughtexplorer
Don’t text back if you know it would hurt someone else.
Yeah… I just miss him. Every single day. I miss being actually heard by someone. I miss the way he treated me.
MetaLife @thoughtexplorer
You can try finding other friends you can talk to. Give it a fresh start. But, I think if he was serious, you going back he would feel it as some kind of a hint, & on realizing it’s not, it will hurt
You’re absolutely right. But what do I do when I don’t even have friends?
Black widow @shreya0208
There could be two cases…either you are unsure about your feelings or you just want to fill your void…if its first try to analyse if it’s second leave the guy alone.
I definitely need to think about the second because as much as I hate to say it, it could actually be possible…
Black widow @shreya0208
Okay then think about it and Don’t be insensitive
🕊✌🏼 @furyinside_404
These are natural feelings and I believe it’s practically impossible to supress them. For argument sake even if you do approach him do you think you two will be able to sustain a relationship? Because if not then it’s seriously not worth it as both of you may be caught in a rut (kinda vicious circle) sometimes in life to walk away from someone doesn’t really mean you care less. It actually means you care way more to let those memories stay fresh.
Whereas your concern to check on him is natural as well so if it makes you feel better you can take a call. However I do think it may only give a spark to feelings for old times sake. Unrealistic expectations hurt the must hence take a call! In the end just take care.
You will come through ✨
He reached my friend a few months ago. He told her how he misses me and the fact that I’ve blocked him and I’m no longer accessible pains him even more. He said that he knows that I’ll come back when the time is right. Things I like, ‘don’t tell her to talk to me. Don’t bother her, I know she’ll come back and I’ll wait.’ Now, Idk. I’m still confused about whether or not he’ll be able to stay just friends with me.
Im the kind of guy you mentioned in your post. I liked someone who would never like me back . So I know how it feels. Don’t unblock that guy . Just leave him alone if you’re clear you don’t like / love him . Make new friends , however hard it is for you . Because if you unblock him , it’s going to cause much more trouble for both of you, you might use to rely on him when alone and yet won’t be with him and he would foolishly be in illusion that there’s something possible between you two.
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You’re right. I would never wanna put him through the same phase again.
