I met someone , we bonded very good, we started talking and sharing stuffs, and then one of my friend also started talking with her and now Iām kinda jealous that they are talking and she is spending much time with him instead of me. Every time I see a message pop up on my friends phone of her , I feel very uneasy and suffocated( i dont know how to explain what i feel at that moment ) Iāve been through this but going through all of this again is really taking a toll on my mental peace. What to do in this situation ???
Find someone else then š
Itās not easy to find people that easy with whom you bond š
Ikr but whats the sol
I dont know man , I just want to not feel this weird feeling :(
Let her do whatever she wants to do.
Maybe she likes his cmpny more as compare to you.
SHe has her own choice.
We canāt force to anybody.
True
Dinethra @debesharingfeeli...
Hey itās OK to feel this way, you have the right to.
It is very hard to see your two friends hanging out with each more then with you. Have you tried talking to them about it?
If not why donāt take one of them aside (or both) and tell them how you feel. You guys should be able to have a well thought out, mature conversation. Itās great that two your friends are hanging out and it can be great if you could hang out with them as well.
Dinethra @debesharingfeeli...
But of course, donāt force them. Itās normal that they have a bond of their own as well. However if they are literally and intentionally excluding you then it could be a problem.
I have talked about this indirectly, and even I get included, sometimes I feel a third wheeler , though she says itās nothing like that.
Dinethra @debesharingfeeli...
Maybe it isnāt, who knows?
Trust yourself and your friends if it is the case. Propose to hang out every one in a while and have a special bond with them, together and individually.
Remember, youāre the one who brought them together.
I like this idea of having a different bond , when we are together and individually , but how to supress the weird feeling that Iām goin through when I see them together or talkin ???
Not much we have really bonded very good and then I introduced her to one of my friend and now Iām feeling like a third wheeler, I can talk to her directly about this , but Iām scared that may be Iāll offend her and lose a good friend
Yeah Iām a guy, and No I donāt love her
Though I think of her as a very good friend
I guess youāll laugh at my answer but I met with her in a trip few weeks back, and we bonded really good and shared a lots of our stories
I met with her on a trip
He went to trip too with me and thus I introduced him to her
Thanks to all, I talked with her directly and I guess everything is sorted now āØ
