I met a guy on a matrimonial website. We have been together for few months now. He is exactly the kind of person I wanted in my life. But his family is not as financially stable as my family is, which is an issue for my parents. I just don’t know what to do.

Aditya Sadhukhan 

He is highly educated and very determined to build a good life together 

And yes my parents like him as a person it’s just the financial part they are concerned about 

Keep pushing and fight for what you want 

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I wouldn't be worried about that. You can build a life together and make more money along the way. If you truly love each other, you shouldn't let anything get in the way of that. Especially if you wanna make it work. So just reassure your parents that everything will be fine in the end. 

Listen to your parents i would say in the long run you won't regret

It matters, but only upto a certain level. If you see each other completing each other's life puzzle, then this stability can wait. Can talk, if you want !

Marriage

So the guy I loved, my first love is moving from his place to new province. We were kind of in casual relationship but I loved him in the process and still loves him. He is coming today to meet for one last time before he moves. Am feeling very sad because it feels like yesterday when we met and did many fun things. Though I deleted all the photos, my memories are intact..I cried thinking that I wont ever be able to meet him again. But as I love him and I wont meet him again and as a good friend to a friend I decided give him a gift as a farewell. Though we think of being in touch by talking but as time goes we will eventually forget to talk and just go with our lives. I want him to be happy always.

Love

Fights
Constant and frequent and increasing in intensity
I love him
We have been together for 6 years
WE have made so much mistakes 
Now, fighting on small issue which manifest past problems and make it bigger
Its me who says sorry to settle things but the words that I left unsaid keep building up inside me and hurting me mostly
I am in constant sadness and pain
No, word to put it together how badly I want the warmth I felt before.
Like, I am lost in a white fog. 

Relationships

I miss my ex. But i was the one who ended it. What should i do?

Breakup

I started to ignore a person who I loved for almost a year. 6 months ago he made a gf and stopped being in a close communication with me. But these last few days he actively contacts me, like he tries to talk to me, texting me random stuff etc. What does this even mean? 

Confusion

I donno why I'm feeling like depressed,,, I'm missing my boyfriend ,, i know this time I was wrong very much wrong but i have a guilt for that i confessed it to him also i even said that just hold my hand I'll improve myself will workout our relationship i begged him but he rejected he is now happy with other girl...
I'm feeling broken down because we had a relationship of 9 year in this 9 year i accepted he had a sex with other girl and many more of his mistakes but that Time i never left his hand i was there with him in his low but now why he is not there me...

There's this guy in my university , I really used to feel we could be good friends. I mean he was a lot like me , more like a male version of me . Even though he barely used to speak with girls back then , he finally started texting me consistently . Though we both are ambiverts , we are kinda shy and hesitate to speak with each other in person. Also ,a lot of my friends really don't like seeing us as friends. In the very initial days when they once spotted us, they were super jealous and started creating situations so that we both couldn't speak to each other. And We  barely exchanged convos in person then. Now one year down the line we still are the same . I feel miserable , knowing that I have this one person right infront of me who could be one of my best friends and he kinda feels the same.Not that we don't put in effort . Both of us do but it never works out.ngl he puts in a lot of effort than I ever did. Ig we both have this constant fear of judgement. We don't really speak when we are in a group of people .  Our convos are sporadic . We speak one day we don't the other.
Any suggestions on  how to overcome this? 
And how to even approach a guy in person and still not intimidate him? 
Is it better to have a convo when he's alone.
Ik this sounds super lame but please help me  out.


Life

Hey so my bf broke up w me 4 months ago because he said he lost feelings. He tried to come back and then because i was hurt I didn’t allow him and went and tried to date his ex afterwards who rejected him. Meanwhile i feel this strong connection and it’s draining. Hes trying to remove me from his life and his friends too. What do i do

I am a girl & i am in relationship for 2.5 years now. Me n my partner literally fight every 4 - 5 dys and 90 % of time its his mistake and he knws that . Every time fight happens he yells at me abuses me , my family , my frnds (not in front of them) blames me which arent related to the current fight most of them are false blames and later he says sorry for straight 3 - 4 dys and says he won't do that again and my heart melts & i forgive and then this happens again. I am really tired from around 2.5 years this is repeatative situation. We both are very attached to each other so He won't allow me to breakup whenever i say i want to breakup he blames me for no reason and bring literally 2 years past fights . We are together since 2.5 years . we Have many close phtos of us .we arent settle ri8 now . My parents want me to get married now. They dont knw about him and he isnt ready to confess our relationship to parents. I want to get rid of this relationship but i he wont allow me and abuses me and blames me i am really afraid if he misuses our photos which can lead obstacle in my future married life please help what should i do how should i get rid of this relationship ?

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