 I mean she is a butch to me.
She always get angry. She thinks she is the boss. Now that i fought back. She is playing as if everything is my fault.
What should i do as a friend.
I dont hate her but i dont like her too.


I think you should tell her that you feel this way if possible or try to take a break from her I really think she doesn’t deserve you if she treats you that way you deserve a much better friend you deserve to be happy I hope the best for you 

Conflict

Hey I feel so anxious that my friend is upset..
I am a very introverted and not an outgoing one I always stay home if ok possible daily..but wfo started and came to a different city and staying with my long distance colleague - friend here we too have a Lang barrier but ok we're managing but she is soo outgoing she wants me to go everywhere with her...if i go one day out for a day I won't untill the entire week but yesterday I had to go out for my another friends to meet lastly before going to a different country for higher studies and today she wanted me to go shopping with her.. remember I went with her day before yesterday too in the evng till night and yet today I asked her I won't and can't i oiled my hair ..how will I go out I can't do head bath I will do the next day only already there is a water change and everything it will fk up my hair if not so in following it and she isn't talkin'after returning she has head ache but I feel like it's my fault..i just can't i said I will go out tomorrow and also day after tomorrow but I can't go today it's three days continuously what the hell will I do?? Just say something please 

Friends

I don't exactly know where to begin and how to explain these feelings in words. It's just I'm having a fallout with a close friend. I really adored her. Because of her I could learn and experience so many different things but now it all seems distant. Last year has been a challenge and sadly we couldn't make it work. I don't know how she feels and I'm not even sure if I want to hear actually. It's weird and confusing, right? Its the same for me too. I am stuck at a place where I don't know if I should just let things flow on their own or do I interrupt and save my friendship? With the latter, the problem is I am not solely responsible for this fallout. I can't try to fix things unless I know she wants the same. Letting go only seems more appropriate to me with every passing day. After reading what I've written I feel like I am the evil person here, great. I felt the same yesterday as well when a common friend told me that she(the other girl in the picture) actually cares for me like she's been asking her(common friend) about me, Fr? Why can she not come to me and ask her doubts?   

So there is this girl, our friendship started in covid and we used to talk mostly on WhatsApp....... 2 years later we had a fight, I spoke really rudely to her and our friendship broke that day and after that, I had no expectation of getting this friendship back. But after a few months I got a call from her, she apologized and wanted to be friends again. 

I'm confused about why!! she still wanted to be friends with me even after I hurt her self-respect????

I don't know what I feel
Today was her last day in my shift and I was avoiding her when our college ended I pretended not to notice her but she approached me when I was alone after my friend left and said" I will miss u really much" Which I also think I will. She considered me her friend but I was a bad friend i guess because i just couldn't attach that much. People pretty much hate me and are happy things ended between us(we were close friends) but she said that she found me a great person. Why do I feel like I did something wrong I mean I never considered anyone from college to be a real friend and created a mental boundary. She told me to teach her to be like (to not give a f_xx) because I don't care about feelings and I am pretty much detached. I wish everyone happiness even to the ones that hate me . 
And hope in future that she becomes happy and finds good friends unlike me because I affected her real bad and I was her sole friend but she felt insecure in us and there was a lot of jealousy which led us to this point of her changing her shift because she couldn't bear seeing me with someone else. 
I don't have this concept of attachment in my brain I just don't I just have a lot of flaws which I need to work on otherwise people might end up being hurt

I had a friend during my middle school and we were actually grp of 4. We made ourselfs as a best friend group and used to play, hangout, chill and everything. We used to be together everytime and sat on the same bench. But all of a sudden when we got to highschool that one friend got separated to another class where the rest of us happened to be in  another class. But it was okay bcz she was kind of an extrovert and there were other friends she was friendly with and they stood by her to not feel lonely. That made us feel relieved too. But as time passed we felt a gap building in between us and her. But we did things to make us connected as before. It happened so silently that none of us noticed it getting widened. She spend more time with them and later it felt like she was not anymore in our group. We still talked but knowing the fact we are having gap and that was the end. So now I'm an adult, just finished my degree and finding my job, I'm still best friends and connected to my other friends in the group except that one person. We are still friends but not same  as we used to be. I talk once in a while with her like strangers and now while remembering those sweet memories we shared when young, it hurts a little. We never expected to be parted like this. That separation had no reasons and was completely invisible. Maybe that's what hurts more. But i know life will always move like this. Not everyone will stay for ever. But those memories are still sweet as sugar. It haven't lost it's flavour.

Adulting

How can i help my bestfriend who is having borderline personality disorder?

Personality Disorder

Made friends with a girl 2 years ago. We instantly clicked, INSTANTLY. We became the best of friends and well, I fell for her. I told her about how I felt and well she always used to say that she wasn’t sure about having the same feelings for me. She told me that she didn’t want to say yes just to make me happy and then later hurt me, which is completely understandable. But, all along, we used to behave as if we both loved each other equally. We used to call each other, we used to tell each other every single thing and well it was all what I considered to be perfect. But, later that year she told me that she didn’t feel the same way about me. It broke me, I still feel low whenever I think about it and well guess what? We still are the best of friends but I’d be lying if I said I had no hopes for us getting together earlier. It took me A SHIT TON of efforts to convince myself that it was never going to happen and all the while in this process, I turned bitter towards her. I started distancing myself from her. She still considers me to be her BEST friend and I do too but it’s just that the past, it really really hurts me. I’ve had pathetic days that only I know how I’ve dealt with. I still get that weird ass feeling if I see someone trying to get too close to her and I don’t know what to do. I’ve felt like breaking contact with her but I just can’t do seem to ever do it because she’s done too much for me. Especially during these times I feel helpless because it keeps coming to me again and again. Anyone on here who can kinda help me, I’ll be grateful :)

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