I m really feeling depressed. After sharing 11 yrs of relationship when we come to this stage letās marry he said kundali gun milan is less than 18 so we canāt marry.
I really love him alot, canāt take this anymore.
Ridzi @sandman
Before loving anyone else, always love yourself first. If he loves you, he will come back, otherwise itās his loss. Donāt give control of your life to someone else.
Right but what about my feelings
Ridzi @sandman
I can totally understand. It will take time but time heals everything.
Itās been 2 yrs and I canāt get over him. Time canāt heal, itās just giving me hopes that one day he will come
Ridzi @sandman
Itās been 5 years for me. :')
What did u do?? How did u mangage, did u miss him still ?
Ridzi @sandman
Yes I miss him everyday, but now I just feel like he is a past of me and was a part of my life. I have accepted things as they are.
So are u married now
Ridzi @sandman
Nope.
If he will not marry me so I think in my whole life I will not be able to marry someone else further.
Iām sorrry but itās the family pressure nothing else to not to marry you
Does really kundali Plays a important role if gun milan is less than 18
In Hindu culture is does play a very big part in it so yes ā¦
So really if itās less than 18 , we canāt marry each other.
See itās just the excuses of not marrying you thatās it nothing else
I also think sometimes this but I canāt understand whatās the need to lie if he is not ready to marry. If he would have been said these things in front of me, I will cry , scream but more than that I can easily move on but now this situation is breaking me very badly and I canāt think of anything else.
See i know it would have being hurting & suffocating you but the things which is done, its done and dusted so itās tough but you have pick yourself up from the ground coz you canāt be on the ground so just dare yourself to stand up and face it and move on coz the life has more things to be done rather then just be laying down on the ground for the one person so if need of anything help or something do connect any time.
I tried but I donāt know why itās so difficult to move on
Coz you are still in the past and havenāt tried to move on from it thatās why
Ee still talk to each other for this issue
Are you serious you talk with him even nowš
Yes thatās is why i m getting depressed
Just stop talking and go have your life Miss or seriously you are gonna be more miserable then ever
I canāt stop myself to talk to him. Itās like I should kill myself if i donāt do this
See you have to take this bold as some point of life or else it will be too lateā¦
Thanks but really it breaking me inside
I donāt think anyone knows this issue in our mutual friend.
Also if I will try so he will be angry that why are you bringing this in our friends
I am sorry about your situation ā¦it is extremely difficult to completely let go but we got to start somewhere right ?..I think subconsciously you havent really accepted what has happened ā¦you got to sit down with yourself and tell yourself that it is over and there is nothing you can do about itā¦ once the reality hit i think youād start making a conscious effort to move on
