I m girl …want to change my self my whole personality grooming . Idont know how …
Piya @piyakaurbajaj
Hey, why do you want to change yourself and what you want to change?
Self growth is important but before that accepting and loving yourself is highly critical!
I’m not shy and introvert i know how to start conversation but after that may be people start getting bore or taking advantage of my innocence or they dont like to talk to me .I’m not their first priorities. .there are good people who likes me $ There are so many cruel people in world so I want to be clever atleast. I know there are good books on that but I don’t want to read books to become like that.
I m not able to accept my self .i m in guilt regret of my past mistakes thinking about it all time.i know it’s over now but I cant help it.
Some times i m in good mood then suddenly I’m in bad mood.i dont know why I’m not able to keep my self motivated and happy inside out.
Plz help. Thanku
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Well first why u wanted to change ?? There is plenty reason to change maybe you wanted acceptance or maybe low confidence or maybe you wanted something else there is so many reasons so first identify reasons and than ask why ?? See it’s effects too and than see it is really good for you so many questions and only you know answers so tell me about this
I’m not shy and introvert i know how to start conversation but after that may be people start getting bore or taking advantage of my innocence or they dont like to talk to me .I’m not their first priorities. .there are good people who likes me $ There are so many cruel people in world so I want to be clever atleast. I know there are good books on that but I don’t want to read books to become like that.
I m not able to accept my self .i m in guilt regret of my past mistakes thinking about it all time.i know it’s over now but I cant help it.
Some times i m in good mood then suddenly I’m in bad mood.i dont know why I’m not able to keep my self motivated and happy inside out.
Plz help. Thanku
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Well I think there is no problem with you and on self love I think it is fault in our upbringing because no one teach us how to stay happy and accept our own self most of time teach us to respect others and most of time teach us to stop listening our own self and there is always conflict within us and look you are smart because you already figure out many things and it is call observation and look if you wanted to someone first priority than try to become your first priority okay if you don’t wanna stay with yourself than how can other stay with you and look world is full with shit peoples and if you really wanted to clever than avoid them because only our friends or well know hurt us or cheat and there is offcourse good peoples so first make yourself good and about past it is already done you can’t do anything about that it is only today that you can control so focus on it and change for your own self dear and strive to better or evolve dear and I think you are a smart person and just make peace with your past and everything will be fine and hope it will help you at least and you can talk anytime
I’m not wrong ,just cant able to accept my self. Or loving myself.yhere are people who any how critise me anyhow.
Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s ability to see you worth.Read it again and think about it.If you doubt yourself and feel bad if people criticize you that means you have low self confidence. To overcome this start working out this will make you confident about your appearance and your mental strength will increase too. Once you you start to believe in yourelf then you won’t give a fu*k what people say about you.
Idonnt know why I have low confidence people I know used to critise me for small things but I give it back answer bcos k this is not me.
If people criticize you but you think what you did was right don’t think about just ignore them bcoz,"kuch toh log kahenge,logon ka kamm hai kehna…"Don’t give a damn. Live your life happily.
