I love this girl who is my colleague but I don’t know how she feels towards me but one thing is sure that she opens up to me about her problems , we take breaks together , she even laughs at my silly joke . The problem is that I wanna confess it to her but am afraid that I might lose this beautiful friendship that we have .
So need your help here guys any suggestions ???
Just be honest about how you feel.
What if she doesn’t feels the same way and I have just ended something special by confessing my fellings?
Can you tell a bit more about how she is ? Theres a difference between being open to someone and wanting to be with them. Has she ever hinted at something romantic?
So far nothing as such but she keeps requesting me to watch those romantic movies and novels . She says after watching this you would feel like to have a gf in your life .
Ik its super hard to confess what you feel cause you don’t know how the other person would reciprocate. But bottling up your feelings is also not am easy thing, this will keep eating you up and just in case if she ends up with someone else you’ll be broken and that day you’ll regret not telling her. If she thinks this friendship is special then confessing what you feel should not affect it. Also, if you are really scared, then try acting drunk and confessing and if she doesn’t feel the same for you make up a story. That way you’ll not lose her in anyway.
Thanks for the suggestions mate .
Felt the same that bottling my emotions could be hard on me .
Bro if she is trying to get OTHER GIRLS for you then its prolly a lost cause tbh, but now u can either deal with how you feel alone or yall are adults and not teenager’s (sorry i have no idea how old you is) you can talk it out.
Girls usually give hints like this, so maybe she does like him too. Not sure tho.
Third person here. She might be twlling you as a friend. Its common between friends. If she doesnt ask you out on dates or hint something more concrete for a romantic relationship you should not assume thats the case.
1st person here, tottaly agreed. Not even asking you out but girls give subtle hints