I love the fact that my friend always comes to me when she is going through a rough time. She said she could only cry to me. Now we are not in the same place, but she calls me when she is upset. But she never shared with me any of her happy moments, and i know she had tons of friends in there and they are having fun every day. Those times she never call me and not even reply to my texts. And when i needed her, she was never there. Even though i talled her about my problems, she would say oh and then changes the subject. Those times i get really upset. 🙁

I have been trying to tell her about my problems. But she's not paying much attention to it. So what can i do. I think of her as a good friend, so i don't want to lose her. But she has been hurting me with those things. 

Hello I wanted to have talk to you . As a friend 


3am Thoughts

Hi!  I'd like a bit of advice for friend issues...so, I've always sort of been the target of my friend group (there are four of us in it).  Recently, someone I'll call V, who's very close to me in this friend group, has began to stand up for me. However, my other friends, who we'll call A and C, have been very upset with me, specifically A.  A gets very angry at me when I don't FaceTime with her (she requests every night) and last night I really didn't want to.  
My keyboard was broken, though, and it wouldn't let me tell her that, so I kept on just typing what I could out of what I wanted to say, which was usually just, "I I D K Jt iygK" Kind of thing.

V got very angry at A randomly, and on an adrenaline high, said they don't want to be friends with her anymore.
We've been friends since first/second grade, so this isn't just a friendship you walk out of.  I'm very worried about all of this.  I'm trying to give A and C more chances to change their toxic ways, but it isn't really working.  I need advice, please.

Friends

***Trigger warning****

My friend from school committed suicide. Its been 3 years since the incident but i still feel like she's around. I haven't been able to accept her death. It's been really hard on me. The last i had talked to her was a couple of weeks before she killed herself. I wish she had been a little more open about the problems she was dealing with on her own. I hate the people who put her through hell that made her feel so weak and vulnerable so much that she was numb to not care anymore. I miss her so much. 

Other

how do I tell my friend to chew with her mouth closed? she has been my friend for 3 weeks but I'm close to snapping and screaming her to shut the f up and eat like a human but she's 7 years older than me and I don't want to made her sad or annoyed lol

Me and her started the relationship in a rush (both have ADHD, typical 😅)
We were in a LDR in the beginning since I was studying in another country.
I moved back home and we moved in together a week later.
Life couldn’t be better.
Well, there were some things that were hard, we were always fighting, but always made up because we really loved each other.
After 3 months living together we realized this wasn’t working.
We broke up.
It was really hard, I really loved her and was always thinking I could change so we wouldn’t fight as much and that we could be together.
She was the only person in the world that I felt really understood me.
We tried and failed being friends.
She tried to infiltrate my friend group because she has no friends.
That was really hard.
I felt like I couldn’t meet my friends without meeting her as well.
I still loved her so this situation was fucking me up.
Fast forward a few months and we were actually starting to be friends again, it felt like it was working. I still had some feelings but I thought they would go away eventually.
Then at a party I noticed that my best friend was acting weird around her.
I asked her about it and found out they had been seeing each other and had sex but he came inside her without permission and she ended it.
I was devastated.
How could my best friend sleep with my ex?
I asked him about it and he broke down, he was having some issues and had some predatory behaviour towards women.
I told him he needed to go to therapy, he did, and we eventually became good friends again.
My ex and I also became friends, and suddenly we were growing close again.
We started dating again but she was not feeling good.
She was having an identity crisis, she thinks she might be a trans man.
We decided that it would be best to end the relationship, it was hard for her/him to feel like he had to be a different person than he actually was for me.
He is going to have testosterone treatment and that scared me as well, I was scared I would stop being attracted to him.
This was 4 days ago.
Today he told me he was feeling lonely, I talked to him for a bit but then I said I had to back off for a bit, it is hard for me to be there for him while I still have feelings for him.
He was really mad at me and asked if I couldn’t just think of him as a dude.
I told him that would take time, we had been in a relationship for a long time while he still identified as a woman so it takes time to change that I’m my mind.
He was really mad and said that he would never forgive me and that I was a terrible person for not cancelling my friend and that I was as bad as him.
I am devastated.
I still really care for my ex. He is having such a rough time because of the identity crisis, he has no friends, no parents, only one brother and a transphobic grandma that has no idea he is trans.
He also has PTSD, ADHD, PMDD and possibly BPD.
I am just writing this because I have no one to talk to, all my friends are partying.
There is nothing that I want more than to be friends with my ex, but he said that would never happen so I am really sad.
I know I should just let go, but that is so freaking hard.
I am also really scared because my ex basically lost her only friend today and he has been suicidal before, so I am scared he will do something stupid.

ADHD

My friend, she's saying she doesn't want to continue our friendship. I asked her why... she said I just want, there's a hunch. It's for her to just go but I've attachment issues. I feel very heavy these days. 

Depression

Sooo I have this so called best friend of mine, we've known each other for 5years now and we became really close 4 years ago. 
So thing was that she was part of a popular group which was very toxic and I was her non toxic private friend. We always hung out a lot but no one really knew that we were bffs. I was okay with it back then, I was understanding. 
However now, we're both in the same college and things look like they're the same but it's changed. She treats me like a bff when we're in private. But in front of everyone someone else (my other friend is her bff) no one really knows how close we are/how we used to be. Worst is that now she only contacts me when she needs help with studies. Everyone knows how the bond with your bff is like. She never treats me like a bff but still calls me one. She never shares her feelings, thoughts secrets. I always find out abt it through a 3rd person. Hell she didn't even tell me she got a tattoo which is like a pretty big thing here. I hate it, what is it that I don't have to become her bff. I don't expect much from her, I don't expect us to hang out all the time. But just casual convos?sharing your feelings? Is it too much to ask for? 

Insecurity

My best friend isn't talking to me... I messed up totally!! I wasn't really helping her during her worst week. Since we are in a new city i was out exploring and she was working her ass off... I could have helped her but i chose to ditch her and go out with my other best friend and she's really mad... Yesterday she cried while confronting me and now she's not talking to me really... And i know that nothing i say will make her feel better for not helping her out. I wanna help her now but she doesn't want me to help anymore and it's eating me up.... I'm trying to giver her space and not disturb her but i don't know what to do since this is probably our 2nd fight in 6-7 years....

I don't really know how to start. I only have one friend and she is the person whom I talk about my feelings a lot. Our topic is mostly about my crush, we confessed to each other a few months ago but as time went by we grew more distant. I tend to say to my friend things like I wanna die and more. But when she reads my messages all she says is "POG" or "nice". So I don't vent to her as much anymore because of her replies. But when it comes to her saying she wants to die, I try my best to comfort her as much as possible. I wanna be there for her and I listen to her when she is sad. But when it comes to me, all she says is "POG" and more. I wish I had someone who could listen to me and someone who would comfort me. I wish someone would be there whenever I am going through rough times. And for my crush, I just want him to tell me that he doesn't like me anymore. I wanna move on and become a better person. I get jealous of my friend easily since she is effortlessly pretty. She is rich, pretty, confident and the new crush of my crush. I wish I was a person who had effortless beauty and outstanding confidence. Maybe I will look more attractive and I might be happier with myself. I really hope I meet the someone I've been hoping for. Thats all I want to say. Please take care of yourself to whoever is reading and know that I Love You! Mwah and have a great day!

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