I love the fact that my friend always comes to me when she is going through a rough time. She said she could only cry to me. Now we are not in the same place, but she calls me when she is upset. But she never shared with me any of her happy moments, and i know she had tons of friends in there and they are having fun every day. Those times she never call me and not even reply to my texts. And when i needed her, she was never there. Even though i talled her about my problems, she would say oh and then changes the subject. Those times i get really upset. π
I have a similar friend
So how do you feel about it
Ye to meri kahani hai
Hello I wanted to have talk to you . As a friend
Okay
Then tell her that. Donβt write it here. Maybe she is not doing intentionally. It can happen sometimes. Itβs important to convey what you think. Donβt cook stories in your head.
I have been trying to tell her about my problems. But sheβs not paying much attention to it. So what can i do. I think of her as a good friend, so i donβt want to lose her. But she has been hurting me with those things.
This is a flaws theory. You wonβt lose a friend by telling. Instead by assuming, you can definitely lose her one day.