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โ€บOne Sided Loveโ€บThought

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Anonymous

I love my best friend so much . I have conveyed my feelings he said that he also likes me just as a friendโ€ฆhe is always there for me when iam in troubleโ€ฆi use to wish that he should be with me forever.l got to know that he has gfโ€ฆwhen I asked him about that he said that its not much serious they aint gonna marryโ€ฆbut that girl is very serious about himโ€ฆI donโ€™t know what shall I doโ€ฆeven though I know he has gf i can get him out of my mindโ€ฆI still feel he should be with meโ€ฆI just want him to be with me. โ€ฆwhat shall i do now?

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Anonymous
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Itโ€™s a trap
Believe me much better things are waiting for you
Let it go give it time you deserve much better
Been there done that

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Anonymous
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I tried a lot to let it goโ€ฆbut I cant able toโ€ฆ it has been 5 yearsโ€ฆand I donโ€™t know what should I doโ€ฆ

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Anonymous
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I also did same
I did it for more than 11 years and later we used to date and now Iโ€™m not talking to her anymore
I believe if he loves you it has to be now otherwise people takes us as granted

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Anonymous
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Iam afraid that he will take me as grantedโ€ฆ

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Anonymous
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Girl if he has a gf and he isnt serious about her, how can you be sure he wont have a side chick when youre his gf. Integrity matters. He might be your best friend but thats the extent you should have with him. He is simply not a bf material coz he aint loyal.

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Anonymous
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He had explain to his gf that he donโ€™t wan abe bf anymore because his family wont allow him do lovemarrigeโ€ฆI do now about my best frnd parentsโ€ฆ

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Anonymous
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So his parents would allow him to marry you in love marriage?

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Anonymous
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Not at allโ€ฆso thatโ€™s the reason I just wana move on and donโ€™t wana think about himโ€ฆbut I donโ€™t know how shall Iโ€ฆI just feel like talk to him every dayโ€ฆ

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Anonymous
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Block him simply. And straight up dont meet him. Its a terrible slippery slope if you stil talk to him . Block him and dont meet him from now on.

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Anonymous
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last time I met him was 4 years backโ€ฆI didnโ€™t met him once alsoโ€ฆso from now on I will try not to talk to himโ€ฆActually I said to my parents and also to him that I love himโ€ฆboth were like you are not mature enough to take decisionsโ€ฆif u still love him when u stand on ur own feet then let us see they saidโ€ฆ

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