Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

Hey mate I’m really soooooooooooo sorry what the fck is happening wid you right now… I know it’s hittin u like a bitc… but u know what lemme tell life is really a bitc… n nothin is fair yaar… but u know what if u would grow through this pain u wont be called survivor but u would be called warrior . No one could relive your pain but ur own brain. Exhaust your pain in fire in ur brain… n just lit yourself n from right now mate… I’m sorry u r seeing this in this early age. But u got no other choice.

I can understand ur situation Dear, please don’t think about suicide and all… U r 14 year old child… U have to live a better life… If ur mom not care about u, just take a breath and talk to her…about ur situation Politely… It may b a chance to understand ur situation… Or talk to ur relatives about ur problem… First of all PRAY AND HOPE FOR THE BEST…

if no other way… Just call the child helpline number… 1098 i think so…

Hey friend,
It is really sad that you have to go through this at such a young age. Some things are out of our hands to control. Life and death are a reality and there is no escaping from either of them. Just as life doesn’t stop when we lose someone. We have to go on. Sometimes, where we think a path ends, there begins a new path to the horizon, it is a journey where no one can stop.
Friend, try to talk to your mom calmly. One day, just sit with her when she is normal and without getting emotional, tell your issues. It may happen that she is also trying to process your dad’s death so give her that benefit of doubt. Tell her that you need her. That you also need to process this grief and shouting isn’t helping but aggravating the matter. I am sure she will understand you.
If she doesn’t understand, then leave it. Just leave her to her own life but make sure that that doesn’t affect your mental peace. Try restarting your life. Take baby steps. Start doing some exercise, take walks, read books, talk to your friends. Get a pet if you want, a dog, cat or fish anything… it will keep you happy and occupied.

I know it is easy for me to sit here and say to move on. It is not easy and sounds cruel, but that is life. Accept this grief, understand it, give it time to heal. Take help from some expert if needed. I know you are shattered, so please don’t be cruel to yourself.
Dear friend, your dad will never leave you, where can he go leaving his baby alone in this world? He will always be by your side. Whenever you miss him, just close your eyes. A gentle breeze will make you feel his presence. He will be always by your side, proud and happy. You will make him proud one day. Trust yourself for that.
You will be out of this grief one day my friend, just be patient. Even this shall pass.

Don’t think of suicide and all. These are permanent damage to temporary problems. Life is real and a good thing that gives you a lot of opportunities to change. Embrace it and make your dad proud.
Virtual Hugs!!🤗

I would suggest you endure your pain. I am so sorry for your loss and i know this feeling cause i have been in ur shoes when my mom died. i just got lucky that my dad is normal to me, he also started seeing another lady but he never made me feel unloved. I would suggest that you talk to your mom that you want her to care about you. you cannot control the decisions she makes for herself but you can control how you want to feel. Tell her that you are not okay with her dating, express how u feel and make her understand that u need her. And I would suggest that you try to adjust as well, trust me it will work in a better way. You do not need to like the other guy but try not to hate him as your mom also deserves a chance of happiness. You just need to make ur mom realize that u need her and she needs to give u priority. This experience is going to change u as a person but u will become a stronger version of urself.