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Anonymous

I long for a relationship. Every time I see couples doing something together or read a book or watch movies where you see the love blossom between two people I get this deep longing for someone to love me like those I read about I’m books.

And I also get this feeling of loneliness (romantically wise) that comes with it.

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Anonymous

i feel the same

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Anonymous

😞

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Anonymous

so should we do smthng about it ?

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Anonymous

Actually you know what, Yes! Lets do something about it. I’m tired of this feeling.

But what are we going to do?

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Anonymous

lol , if i really knew the answers ,i wouldnt be single like this

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Anonymous

Same😕

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Anonymous

lol , did yoou try dating apps?

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Anonymous

No, where I live using dating apps are practically useless. And from what I’ve heard most of those relationships don’t even get a chance to start before it ends.

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Anonymous

really , where do you live ? dont tell me india .lol

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Anonymous

Theres nothing wrong with India and no I don’t live there.
I’m from a very small country and you can’t exactly go on tinder and Hope to match with someone there, the chances of an actual encounter with one is close to zero

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Anonymous

Love in books and movies isnt real . Its just to induce butterflies in your stomach

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Anonymous

Are you female or male?

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Anonymous

If you truly believe that, then I don’t know ow what to tell you.

It IS real we just have to make it happen, and find that love with someone who’s meant for us. How can we write about it and portray it in movies if it wasn’t possible or ‘not real’ as you’ve said.

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Anonymous

Im a man but why does it matter . I write short stories too , and while i do appreciate the depiction of reality, a lot of it based on my experiences and imagination. So no you dont always get 100 percent honest love depiction in pop culture, be it movies or books, anybody who believes it to be true is honestly being ignorant or disillusioned

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Anonymous

You don’t have to be rude about it.

And answer this, in books you see characters willing to sacrifice their lives for someone else whether that’s romantically or not. And you watch movies about someone simply doing something that seems completely meaningless to others but to them its not.

Now tell me if you saw the woman or man you love dying and all you had to simply do is hold their hands like in the movies isn’t that an act of love if you choose to do so.
Can’t a person feel such depth of love for another just like characters do?

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Anonymous

Im not being rude, im just being honest. Also i did not reject reality in fiction, go read my comment again, you equating two different things.

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Anonymous

You know what, I’m wayyy too tired to have this discussion with a stranger. Let’s just agree to disagree

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Anonymous

Youre free to do that

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