I live in a flat with my frd and his sister
She’s working and I left my job few days ago and now I’m searching for new job and he’s in job trials
We have been having issues lately.
When it comes to money I spend it and don’t ask for anything but when it’s time for him to spend money he makes me feel like I’m the I’m forcing him even though he doesn’t had money kinda.
But how does that work even I Don’t have money coz I spent them all into the room and they have their share to
.but I never ask when they give I’ll take that’s. It .
Now he was like his sister working so she’s tired that’s why only I need to the work but I’ve already told her that I have periods and for 1 day just clean the house. But she didn’t and when I ask him he’s like do u even know how tired she is u need to understand. Like I’m the one who’s making dinner every say cleaning everyday. For q day I ask she’s busy … and tired .
Dono milkar apse kam krwate hai aur help nahi krte apki aise logo ke sath maat raho ji
Kush @kush_v_07
There’s a app called splitwise thay app can divide all the spends between you your frnd and his sister it will he easy to manage … and divide the work it will he easy
We do that only but like I said they never pay and we do split the work but the we will do later which the never will
Kush @kush_v_07
Bhai konsi jgha rheta h I mean which city
Hyderabad
Kush @kush_v_07
Arre bhai delhi m hota to m tujhe rkh leta… thoda strict rha unke saath line p aa jyenge
joonie @shykid
See, you have to sit with them and let them know what they are doing is making you feel. And aap bhilkul bhi emotions ko beech m mat lana, joh bhi hai sach sach bol Dena and clear Karo. I can understand them not splitting bill, ye mere sath bhi horha tha and they have not even paid them abhi tk and we don’t live together so my money’s gone now. Be strict about it and do not pay only even if you have money say it’s finished, I know we fear to lie and we want to help our friends but when they don’t see where we are coming from then you have to set boundaries.
Thank u
