Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

Wt.f is this advice dude

Fighting!

I did but I’m still stuck on him and i can’t feel anything for the new guy, who loves me, I tried and I’m still trying so hard but i only miss him only think of him, i never think about the new guy, i feel like I’m cheating on both of them.

Yeah EXTREMELY HARD.

Yeah, in too trying to move on …

I removed him from everywhere, his photos videos, recording, chats, our photos, blocked him from all social medias, even Twitter, deleted his number, completely removed him from everywhere, even stopped listening to the songs we shared. Even moved to another city although because of some other reason but i did move, and I’m still stuck. What else can I do?

Oh that bad. Okay. Kudos to you for consciously putting the efforts. How about journaling it. Write it down on a bunch of papers. The goods and the bads. Think about what makes you so attracted to him. I mean I have been there… and in the end it boiled down to my attachment method and abandonment issues. He wasn’t special. I idealized him way too much. Once I was able to look back at it objectively, I realised he was pretty ordinary and tbh a jerk. That helped me. May be you could give this a shot. And in the end imagine what would you say to that person. Not the nice things. The actual things that have caused you pain.
And in the end take these papers and burn them. I hope you move on and live a really happy life with a loving and fulfilling relationship.
Some people are lessons we needed in life at that point. All the best! ✨

You’re awesome. Thank you!

I don’t think ignoring these things will help that much…I would say recognize your emotions and cry whatever…listen to those songs and just make it a normal song than a special one. Always confront your feelings…it helps alot.