I literally got to know tht my both parents are cheating on each other like mom is have an affair with someone and even my dad also.
My dad’s affair is known like few members know it but my mom’s no one knows she kept it secret about it but i got to know by mistake. Once my mom did the pregnancy test but she didn’t tell anyone abt it. She kept it so secretly when she used to go out my family members they never asked her anything. When she used to come as if nothing has happened. Thn i discovered my mom call record with tht guy tell abt satisfaction,happiness and all the things related to sex. Tht guy is the one whom i know and he does also have a wife who is national awardee as the best teacher. when no one is house tht guy come over. Many times when i had holidays and my mom ised send me out so far away tht i shouldn’t come home for at least for 1 or 2 hour like sometimes she used send me to his house for getting so things because our family and his has good relationship.Many times even my mom went his house also.
When i come to my dad he is having affair from past more thn 10 years and they had gone to beaches and pubs and everywhere even he bought the lady home whn no one was there.
I am in a dilemma tht who is correct in the family…???🤔🤔
ggoshh that sounds stuck in a situation
just talk to them both openlyy
say this is affecting you
If i speak with each other thn they will surely divorce each other and i ll be the villain and victim of it😭😭
talking and sorting out is better than this drama which they didnt know tat u know
and how r they treating u?
Since this is going on for so long. I think your parents must have talked to each other about being in open relationship. Maybe just for the sake of children and society they choose to stay together.
You should talk to them.
Since your mom is expecting soon, anyways this has to be discussed.
They are both adults and its highly unlikely that they don’t know of the other’s affair. But if they are choosing to stay silent it a choice taken by them, with reasons we don’t know. Parents are from generation where they were subjected by the standard of the society.
The main question here is how they are treating you? Are you a subject of any form of abuse, may it be physical or emotional?
If they are taking the time to care for you and support you maybe you should give them the benefit of doubt?
First of all love and strength to you for coming up and asking for help. Since you understand all this situations going on in your family, i believe you are mature enough. Maybe 20+…
See our parents are from generation where they were told to look after family and supress their desires. Maybe they were not happy with their marriage but for the sake of society they chose to stay. They are providing you as its their responsibility.
I would say you should talk to them regarding this. If nothing comes as conclusion. You should try to work on yourself to secure good education and a well paying job so that u can move out and start n new life…
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Hey, I am aware that this might be bothering you and you feel terrible…
However, if your parents have fulfilled their duties towards you and have consented to each other for having external partners… I don’t really see a problem as long as you are safe and their respective partners are not harming you in any way…
It is normal for people to grow out of their marriages and find partners… unfortunately, in India it is still a taboo and the fact that they try their best not to get you involved and keep you away from the bullies by keeping it a secret is reason enough for you to accept their truth… and let them live the rest of their lives however they wish to…
