I like someone outside of my caste pretty sure he too likes me but we aren't dating aren't just frnds then he said if i can dste someone else of my caste... i said sure u can but now only ik how broke and painful it is feeling... wish guys could give one thing that is loyalty but loyalty is very rare nowadays

True, but firstly you need to understand what you actually want. Either love or marriage?
If love then goes for it, no problem but if marriage, then you should think twice about your family backgrounds and consider the reality before continuing further.

Boyfriend

In a relationship with a man who has 5 small children with 3 different mothers. All kids are between the ages of 7 and 13 three of which who are one month apart in age and the other two are 2 years apart. Even though I’m not one of these victims. I feel like I cannot trust someone who has a background such as this one.  Might I add I’ve been with him 2 years and he has yet to introduce me to his mom or take me to his residence. When I ran the address wher he resides one of the kids mom also resides at the same address. He’s at my house 6 days out of 7 and goes home on Sunday. I’m feeling like I’m in a bunch of messiness and ready to exit .

Relationships

I still remember the night he told me that he didn't want me anymore. He made it sound like it was Nothing for him, for me. Nothing. When I tried sorting things out he just brushed me off and simply said this cannot happen and left me. I was so much anxious and heartbroken for so many days.. My emotional pain got converted into physical pain.. I was hopeless and I used to cry for hours.. I used to cry in the middle of the nights.. I never got my closure.. Never knew exactly what happened to me.. Was i being taken advantage of this whole time??.. I don't understand how can people be so heartless.. Promising someone the whole world, feeding them on lies for so many months and then leaving them out in the cold.. In the middle of nowhere.. Without even considering the other person worthy of an explanation.. Why don't they understand that some of us are really vulnerable with our fragile little hearts.. We don't see manipulation coming.. Anyways.. The thing is that I was heartbroken I still I am but now I am much better and I don't expect him to come back now.. May none of you have to go through such heartbreak..love you all. 

Breakup

I have kind of mixed feelings today, 
Yesterday had a fight with bf. I want to be calm just because I want everything to be smooth again. But I'm observing things. You may call it my overthinking, but I feel like he actually doesn't care about me much. He forgets about me whole day, he doesn't care if I cry or didn't had dinner, he just don't care. Sometimes I feel to go far away from him. But the thing is I can't live without him. And realising these hurts me alot. He asks me to trust him, HOW ????? I do everything possible to make him happy even when he's bored. When I say him the exact thing, somehow fight starts. Yesterday we had a fight, We didn't had dinner, he literally ordered for himself and ate whole thing like a monster. He isn't even bothered if I'm hungry or anything. 
This happened multiple times. I've never did like this with him. It hurts. Sometimes I feel like to leave him like nothing ever happened or to break his computer and his upcoming scooty. I just can't live without him. I'm still confused, is it worth. It's been 3 years. There are lots of moments too. I still don't understand whats in his mind. It's hard to live like this everyday, sometimes I feel like to die, I know no one will be bothered much, as I don't have any friends. My bf would be the happiest one, he would have words to talk with his so called friends. He would get his desirable chick.  Just the parents thought strike me. I just wish this fear to go away, I will end fucking everything and go far far away from everyone who hurt me. 

Exhausted

I miss my toxic ex very bad

Well, I’ve mixed feelings. So there’s this guy who’s my childhood friend like I’ve known from past 15 years at least. Since the I always liked him, I had attraction before but then later we started talking regularly and then I fell in love with him ( this was 7-8 years ago). He got to a year later that I have feelings for me but then he tried to set me up with his friend and that was failed miserably. And then from past 2-3 years I’ve realised that he’s not into me. He ignores me, we don’t talk much now, and whenever he is in a relationship he doesn’t let me know idk why, but his last girlfriend messaged me after breakup that take care of him and all, and that was my first conversation with his girlfriend( this was around 1.5 years ago). Then 10 days before we met after an year and I asked him that his girlfriend broke up with him because of me? But then he said, you were not the reason but definitely she had problems with you. And he was missing her and watching my love missing his ex in front of me was like heartbreaking but I didn’t say anything to him. Now I’m not sure what should I do, I guess I still have feelings for him because I have never been into a relationship until now because I don’t find that I’ve with anyone what I’ve for him. But he’s simply not interested in me, even 15 mins before I called him because I was missing him and wanted to talk but he never picks up my calls. I don’t know what should I do. 

Love

Hes been in vegas for 1 day hasn't texted me back.

3am Thoughts

Hi,

I got married last year after dating for a year.
I knew my husband had insecurity & trust issues but I overlooked it all because I was in lovr and thought that after getting married things will change.
One month before the wedding he started telling me that I was not ready for marriage and for me everything is just a game. He said that if I want I should take time and call off the wedding. I convinced him that he's overthinking and you don't give up on relationships.
We finally got married. But things were not good. He checked my phone. He did not trust even after marriage. He kept saying that I was not ready for marriage and if that is the case, it's not too late.
Once we had a massive fight because he thought I was into someone from my office. He broke a lot of things and said a lot of hurtful things. Though there was nothing of that sort, I apologised trying to keep our relationship safe. All this made me loose the trust and love for him.
It impacted our relationship very badly that I couldn't feel anything for him.
3 months back I was diagnosed with severe Anemia. I kept telling my husband and his family that I'd been feeling weak but they paid not attention to my health. All they wanted is for me to take the responsibility of the household chores alongwith with my regular job.
I told my husband multiple times that I'm not happy and I feel depressed. I don't feel like I am a part of the family. His reply was that it's all because I don't consider them as a family.
Ultimately, it's been 3 months that I staying with my mom and my husband and I have not spoken. Things are leading to a separation and I'm not sure, because I love him but I don't want to go back to the same unhappy and depressing life I had after marriage.
I don't know what to do.

Depression

Hello everyone,


Hope you are well.

I just want to share my small story  and want suggestions from you guys.

So few months ago I met a guy who is cute and understanding but I do not find him that much attractive at that time but he kept talking to me and I also i like to talk to him. i change my city as well for 2 months
And still we were connected. But know I am back in my city and I realised that I am in love with him and I expressed that he also want to date me before and recently as well. But had a conversation few days and don't know what happened to him. After getting idea that I also like him he is not behaving as before he use to do and now he looks very interested. Don't know what happened now i like him and him in life as my partner. Don't know what to say and do to him .


Please let me know your thoughts on this.




















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