I like a girl soo much but i dont know how to tell her …she is my friend and i am afraid if i tell her that i like her it would end our friendship too which I dont want …but keeping my feelings hidden hurts me … And the thought of loosing her hurts me more … And over all these our convos are getting shorter day by day because of me coz i every time i talk to her i get confuse and sound less interesting and boring …🙃
is there any hints tht she might feel the same way? also definitely try to conversate with her more and figure out ways to keep the convos going. if anything that’ll make her start having interest in you.
I dont really know shw give hints or not …i am an introvert and also an overthinker too. So every small normal or not things she do makes me feels special and seems to be a hint…and how to conversate i dont know
okay so coming from a girl i would hold off on telling her u like her until she shows interest because like you said it would make the friendship awkward or even end it if you told her and she didn’t feel the same way. so i say try talking to her as much as you can and stay consistent with her.
and try to give her subtle compliments like saying she looks good today and if she wears mascara or any makeup compliment that it’s the little things that effect us the most. lmk if there’s anymore questions.
Dont know why but its becoming too much difficult for mee to keep the conversation on going …
I wish i could but she lives in a different city … We didnt ever met in human …
is it a more of a u cant keep it going or is she not really helping the conversation flow? and if you know what she looks like and if she posts photos of her you can still compliment her! it doesn’t have to be in person its the little things that mean so much to us girls. and if you are having trouble with conversations you can maybe try looking up some topics or something but preferably ones that are opinionated but not to where it causes an argument ones where you guys can joke around and say “really?” like questions about this or that etc.
I definitely want it to keep going but i dont know how i want to talk to her like we used too with same energy and to be honest i do the same from my side but not getting the same response makes me feel like this …it makes me feel to give up bit i dont want to give up on her or on our frndship whether it turns into a relationship or not its just i dont want to end anything … And talking about compliments i do compliment her when she posts her pics on which she looks good…
well thats good you compliment her! its the little things and you can start a basic conversation about asking how her day was and if she has any plans but are u hoping some of her responses are different than they are? like is she being “dry” in a sense?
Dry in the sense ???
like are her text very simple like for example if you asked her how her day was and she said “it was good” no wbu or anything like dry is when u can tell they arent trying to keep the conversation going
Her responses changed a lot like what they had been before …She used to ask me about my day my health how have i been what i am doing but now she asks nothing like that
Yaa she dont ask me now anything not even a single normal thing …feels i am left only as a listener for her …
sometimes girls can get bored overtime and its not necessarily you thats the problem. or she might’ve had feelings for u and couldnt express them and so she lost hope and stopped really trying idk. i think i’ve asked this encore but did she ever drop hints she liked u? like compliment u or anything?
Yaa sure you are right …and about the hints i really dont know if she dropped one or more but a few times she did gave a compliment but i am not sure if it was a normal one or anything else
if she normally complimented u then she most likely had feelings for u!! it takes a lot for us to give guys compliments cause we don’t know how they’d react but my guess on why her text changed is maybe because she had feelings at one point and tried hinting it but it wasnt like so noticeable and maybe she just gave up but definitely try starting convos with her more
You sure about this ??? Like i am confused a lot as you said sudden changes in her text that was the strange part … I will definitely try to make things like they were and will try to rebuild the bond we had may be better than that …
yes u should def try rebuilding the bond but yea i think she might’ve had feelings for u before because if she was complimenting u regularly that says a lot. a lot of girls tend to struggle with complimenting guys cause they don’t know if they’ll find it weird or whatever but def try building the bond up again before you say anything about how you feel.
Yeah for sure i will and will ask her once everything will come to the right path …
Btw thank you soo much for listening and helping me in my problem💛 glad to talk to you .
any time 🥰 so glad i could help you out a little bit, i hope everything works out for you in the end you deserve it! shes lucky to have someone as caring as you
Thank you once again for your help … I hope everything works out … And its glad to see people like you …
