I like a girl in library but i can't make the first move... 
I adore her badly she looks cute and beautiful 
How should I go for it ??,

Girlfriend

Hi,... So i broke up with my gf back in 2020.... I loved her very much but we were never meant to be, and i also know that she is forever gone from me.... After that i could never really like someone NEW, not from my heart atleast.... Also neither I'm good in starting conversations with girls, nor in my looks.... But sometimes i did get 1-2 sexual chances wherein i already told the girls that I'm unable for any emotional attachment and we'll proceed further if they're okay with that.... They were.... When i hadn't met them, i paid for it iyk wht i mean.... Now i wanna ask is it normal, or not? Also i still can't forget my ex and i believe the next girl i truly like can only change this perspective or situation of mine. 
Y'all can share all your thoughts. I mean is it even healthy or what. 
Ps- i was physical with girls with their full consent and told them not to expect intimacy bcoz I'm out of it and we all are adults. 

Breakup

So my gf told me that she's having exams so will be busy. And I understand that even gave her all time, didn't forced her for anything. And it's been more than two weeks now since she texted me, I was still waiting. Then yesterday night I checked her online status over Ig app. And I found there were posts,those were posted like 2days ago,5days ago,1 week ago like that. I'm totally disappointed with this,what should I do? She has time for these all but not even asked me how am I doing all the time.. 

Anxiety

I fall in love with someone But she don't have any kind of feeling for me and she is ignoring me too i don't know what to do 🙁

This is my first time talking bout this so please stick with me. So im 19 and i just joined college and its online as of right now and theres this girl and i have met her only once when i visited the city and she is very chill, we talk and all and she is one of the few people i talk to in this college and i dont know if i have crush or not tbh. I have no idea how crushes feel. Also is it wrong of me to think that it wont work out ? Cus im a very different guy than here like totally opposite she is a very wanna have fun and chill and go out girl from a city and im a very gottta work hard and me againt the whole world (2pac style) from a town who had lot of shit in past and too much in his mind. So now how do i know if i have a crush ? Like lmao i dont even know how it feels lmao


Relationships

Hey strangers,
I wanted to share something happened to back two weeks ago. It’s always a similar story to every guy here but lemme try to put in a way maybe it sounds interesting? I hope it is.
Being an emotional fool I got attached to this girl in my bachelors and of course she just saw me as a best friend even though I knew the outcomes of my feelings I confessed and got it out my chest. But what I did was I stayed with her as a friend and our friendship developed. It had everything in it ups and down. She falling for someone and I becoming a psychopath for months and not talking to her. Then decided to give up on emotions, relationships etc and focus my career and my closest friends and I started to talk to her again. And then during covid was the best period we spent our time studying together online and we were there for each other ever moments and it felt nice. We spent the new year together online. And celebrate each other birthdays and shared our dreams of going to Europe for higher studies. Then we did it we are in Europe. I am studying in Italy and she’s in Belgium. But we haven’t met for years it has been like two and half years I met her and we finally decided to meet her in Paris. So we decided a trip after our exams. Before we met the day night she was asking about stuffs like something I never told her or something you are feared to say. So I casually told her that I won’t able to feel for someone else like I felt before. I indirectly told it was about you how I felt before L. She got that and she didn’t speak until we met. We finally met in Paris and it felt so good and I was so freaking happy to see her. Then that night we went to drinks and she confessed that she has feelings for me and man that felt like heaven and even till this day I can’t believe but unfortunately we are separated now.  It lasted for a month and now it feels like all gone and lost. The trust I had for her was gone in a second and the years took to build the friendship it was taken away. The one person I never meant lose was lost. Why is it so unfair? 

I broke up with my GF last month. It got too toxic and I was so relieved afterwards. But a month down the line... I miss her terribly. I feel like a shitty person and I feel like reaching out to her. I know I shouldn't... What do you guys think?

3am Thoughts

I thought I found the love of my life but I think I was wrong she promised me that she wouldn’t tell anyone that we’re dating but she did tell someone and now Idk if I can’t trust her anymore she broke our promise I don’t think our relationship will ever be the same again I just feel different when I’m talking to her now like it doesn’t really feel right to me anymore it just really hurts to know that she broke our promise 

Hey folks,
New here and finding the way about better relationship. Actually I’ll introduce our relationship first. We both are knowing each other since college time, she was into me so badly as childish that goes any beyond control to be with me. Days past we both talked and started loving each other even though that we should ask parents to take next step into it. We been engaged by 2 years and went all things good, i was living out of city coz of my work place but able to come at her place within 3-4 hrs road journey. I regularly meet her on weekends and both having fun and loving each other same respectful and understanding way but things got wrong before 8 months from today. I started noticing in her nature that she growing and being her own self now. Im happy that she’s doing and standing in her own legs but it was not along with my foot. At same time she thought why should I’ve to depend on my fiance i can do anything and can be confident. Im independent women. I felt many changes into her self, change in priorities, respect towards me, conversations between us. Every got little change i began to worried that wts going on. It turn me into insecure that does she found another guy or someone brainwashing her or misguiding. I didn’t knw wt to do. On other hand our distance getting long each day by not understanding each other, gained anger and ego that why would i do things will sort automatically i should not have to waste of time. ( now ppl will judge me or even laugh on me after my next stages )  i frequently try to communicate wt is going on or wts problem she’s facing. She just keep saying time will heal and everything will sorted out. On that faith we even got married coz we already seen dreams and family involvement beside from that i still hoped on my relationship that once she will live with me eveythinh will resorted as we had but now till this min there is no progress. I feels that she’s mine but i dont have right on it our fights are keep going, miscommunication and lack of understanding still going on. Even i wont hesitate to let u all know that we both not even came into physical relation coz of unhappiness. I just had talk with her that why its happening with me why Im getting this things. I softly asked her today that wts going on we both nit deserve this kind if couple life. now what she replied. That’s my main question behind download this app 

She told me that once im happy from inside everything will sort out and being husband think what is lack on u that not fulfiling. ( just want let u know all that Im doing everything for her, care, love and support everything atlist gave 100% which i know but still this statement broke my heart )

Now whomsoever reading this my matter please suggest me what she trying to say and what solution it should have except understanding and respect coz everyone knows this 2 things only maintain bond between any relationship  so here it is please let me know what she expecting from me and what should I’ve to do in this situationz

Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts