I lied to someone and I feel very bad about it, not for them cuz me lying about it doesn’t affect them in any way, not really, but I feel bad for myself. I hate lying and i hate thinking i had to but at the same time maybe i did what was best. i don’t really know i just feel very bad about it and i haven’t stopped thinking about it ever since i made up an entire story that was completely unnecessary. I don’t plan on saying the truth, I don’t want to but i don’t want people believing what I said either although that was my first intention, seeing people fall for my lies isn’t really making me feel any better, i thought it would but i guess i was wrong.
Maybe i made no sense, Im not really looking for advice, i just wanted to vent i guess.
Bruhh if you are right than your lies are not wrong
what do you mean?
That’s good that you’ve realized:)
I already knew I didn’t want to lie when i did but i guess i did realize something which is that it doesn’t make me feel better so i guess ur right. However, if u were to ask me if I’d do it again ( lie in that situation) yes, probably. Idk it’s kind of complicated, I don’t feel bad about lying to them, like i said i feel bad for myself.
never lie or guilt feeling never goes away.
truth, but what about a white lie? I thought those wouldn’t hurt anyone but they hurt me, I wish i didn’t feel the need to lie, cuz ur right it’s never a good feeling
you have to accept the guilt feeling and justify by giving reason and move on… But later in life these wrongdoing complicates feeling.
Yes, I get what you mean. Thank you!
there is a saying if you were talking down the street, and a kidnapper ask you which way the child went. Will you gonna tell the truth or lie.
sometimes it’s perfectly fine but you have to justify it for greater good.
You know what you did, means you are aware of your consciousness. That is enough in future to take decision
Thank you, I appreciate that <3
I mean i haven’t lied ever since but not bc i decided not to just because i haven’t been in a situation like that, where i felt the need to lie. So idk if u can call that truthful. Was i in that situation again i probably would still lie.
I’m sorry i can’t tell you. I guess that’s the reason why I lied, i can’t say the truth even if i wanted. Thanks for offering to listen tho🤍
hahahaha no no, i swear it’s not a big deal lol Why i mean but i can’t say it is i can’t get myself to say, words wouldn’t come out easily. But i’m allowed to say, I technically didn’t commit any crime so yeah don’t be scared, it’s harmless 😂
hahaha no, why? you did that?
i lied to my mom and a few other people too, but not to any crush lol