Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

I know what I need to do . The heart to accept a lot of things and move on is difficult.
I was involved in a very complicated way with someone and we had to breakup. After a lot of fights and a lot of ignoring activities ,I took the first step and tried to clear things up and by doing this I feel light by heart but I am not able to accept the fact I had to do all the hardwork in this relationship till the end. It is also hard to accept that we ended it and it actually ended like for real and we have to go back to normal like nothing happened.