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I just want to ask you guys to share your thoughts. So I have this cousin who knows about how my relationship with my husband is meaning the rapport that we share how much info he shares with and how much he doesnโ€™t (only things that I might panic- somehow he shares with his brother and he shares everything with his wife). So itโ€™s like she knows more than me which I honestly donโ€™t care. Me and my husband have our own way of dealing with things and we are not that lovey dovey in front of others. Every now and then this lady makes fun of how we donโ€™t stick together, how he doesnโ€™t share much details,how he doesnโ€™t listen to me(my husband listens to only himself๐Ÿคช) and how she and her husband are far better than us. I get it. Fine. Stay happy and blessed always. The problem is when she smirks and makes fun like recently my husband made efforts to come to an event for my daughterโ€™s school. He was in another city. He could reach only late. Now she was making fun ๐Ÿ˜he couldnโ€™t reach on time. What do you guys think? Should I just ignore such people. Give it back to her. Coz I donโ€™t mind giving it back to her but I donโ€™t want unnecessary discussions. She throws tantrums too. I donโ€™t want that drama in my life but it bothers me why does she have to poke her nose and make fun of unnecessary things.
. P.S. I donโ€™t make fun of her at all even when there were situations I could easily take revenge.

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Anonymous
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You can like do the taunting to her.

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Anonymous
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She fusses, gets angry, again makes fun of me so I used to think itโ€™s best to ignore such souls. I just feel ki what could be the reason she always wants to prove me that she is the best in everything. She makes it evident how she is jealous that people in the family like me more than her. Itโ€™s like they shouldnโ€™t. So she makes fun of me behind my back to them. My husband cautions me and says she is a jealous soul. Leave her the way she is and let her triumph. Now if she keeps doing this constantly it obviously bothers you right.

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โ€ฆ bothers me* right.
Arhhh! Now &Me adminwale humko apne post ko edit karne ki option do yaar.

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Anonymous
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Jo hai ussi s kaam chlao

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Anonymous
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๐Ÿคช๐Ÿ˜‚

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Anonymous
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Bhai tu married hai?

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Anonymous
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Bash her on the head ๏ฟผ

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Anonymous
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๐Ÿคช๐Ÿ˜‚hehe

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Anonymous
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You stay with ur cousin? Canโ€™t u avoid meeting

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Anonymous
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No we often meet. Whenever we meet and she calls every 3rd day even if I donโ€™t call her.

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Anonymous
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Avoid the person.cousins se itna kyu milna hota haiโ€ฆstart slowly avoidingโ€ฆthats best. Rest you sound like an intelligent person, do what you think is best with best intention. I think this problem can be solved by avoiding each other. Donโ€™t pick calls .

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