I just wanna know your opinion about my situation…
It’s that you got close to somekne through chatting on social media and on online platform he is just different personality but when u start meeting in person that personilty always scoffed you off, always say down things to you and sometimes it’son peak. But this personality(in the name of friendship) is your bestfriend…Will you still with them or choose your self respect?
choose your self respect!
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The thing is that you yourself know what the answer should be …but you are not capable of doing it… right?
Exactly, and now indirectly that person posting thing how cruel his bestfriend was with her(uk me)…
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Stay positive and strong.
Self respect over everything
Fuck the relationship whether it’s a friend, a partner, a parent or whatever if they’re toxic you should not entertain them. People like these live for shit like this. All they do is manipulate, the longer you don’t cut them off the longer they’ll damage you and feel better about themselves and their life. You don’t have to be someone’s punching bag.
Just know that this isn’t friendship. Friends don’t do shit like this or they’re just ass**"@s who are using your empathy and ‘friendship’ to keep you under control and be mean to you as and when they please. I’m speaking from my own experience dude, tell them to fuck off (if you can) or just block them from everywhere. And make sure if you have someone you can trust that knows (IRL) that this has happened so incase this person tries to create drama you’ll have someone who will be atleast you alibi and if they can, they’ll help you with whatever this person is capable of doing to get back control over you. These sorts of people aren’t safe to be around. Let alone be friends. Be safe. Take good care of yourself and whenever anyone makes you feel this way, first check within you if what they’re saying has any truth to it? And don’t shame yourself okay and don’t just trust anyone at first, think it for yourself and if you feel and think it isn’t good for you, leave them immediately. You can politely tell them that you’re not comfortable and you’d not like to be in touch anymore and if you know polite won’t work, just stop talking. You don’t owe any abusive, manipulative or anyone tbh any explanation for protecting yourself. Just be your own no. 1 alley. And leave the rest. We are our own responsibility and not because it has to be toxic or selfish or anything but because there are many predators in this world who’ll use and abuse anyone they can. Don’t let them. Please.
Sending best wishes. Stay safe.🌼💖
I can see the pain, i can relate…
Tysm for your wishes and I already had cut off that person… And somewhere I really feel good I’m not wasting time on him rather improving me…tysm once again♡
Be proud of yourself. I’m proud of you for doing that. You deserve better friends and people in your life. You got this! Take good care. And thanks. I related so hard i had to say something so I did and i am beyond elated that it helped validate you. Thank you. Stay safe