I just really wanna do something big in life i wanna get serious and literally change my life for good. Mu boyfriend is such a hardworking talented person, and me on the other hand im nothing compared to him, how will i present myself in front of his parents if i keep going on like this…. I want us to be perfectly compatible and made for eachother, i wanna really build up my skills and be the best version of myself to stand equal beside him. Although he is very nice and has never shamed me for being less than him but as im 20 and he’s 25, i feel im not a kid anymore.

Erza Hazel

Wow I never thought of it like that, thank you

Its actually very good that you are acknowledging yourself that you wanna do something big in life.
Thinking that you wanna be something is first step of self improvement but please do it for your self and not for anybody else 
You should do something for you not because you wanna be equal someone 
It should be you vs you
Get insipre from your boyfriend but in a healthy way not not to validate what will his parents think


Adulting

I really want to do breakup i m just done literally done with him but I can’t do breakup every time I try to do it just can’t happen from my side he just say tht he loves me but he is so much involved with him tht he don’t give me time at all and whenever I complain about his behaviour he strts shouting instead of understanding and blame everything on me tht I always complain I don’t understand what to do
I don’t hv friends nd lots of trust issues so tht I can’t talk to stranger and make friends no guy friends strict family never let me go out of the house
I feel sick of this life and why the hell I can’t do breakup I don’t understand in starting he was so good but now i m the one who is putting all the efforts why he is doing this to me 

Boyfriend

i feel so alone. me and my boyfriend of 1 year and almost 3 months broke up earlier this month. he was toxic and everyone told me he was. i ignored all the red flags because i loved him and i still do. i can’t let go of him. he has already moved on from me in less than 2 weeks after we broke up. i am so emotionally attached to him and i can’t learn to let him go. he acted like i meant nothing to him. i just don’t understand how he could move on so fast 
after all the time we spent together. i am so lost and confused. it hurts so l much to see him with someone else. i don’t know how i can go on without him even though he treated me so bad. everyone says that i am strong for leaving but i don’t feel strong at all. can anyone help me?

Breakup

He(ex) msged me today nd just said im sorry for the other day. I wanna meet you. I thought he will only ask me for money again, i told him I don't have much money rn. He said no i just wanna meet you. I gave him a bunch of reasons like you didn't meet me that day, you left like that nd that you broke my trust.... He replied a bit....then he said Ok your wish bye....He has not replied since then.... Should i not have pressured him that much like made him feel guilty? Or was i right?

I got back with my ex who had abandoned me because he had to settle down find a job after a year he happy birthdays his way into my life and starts acting normal . We met couple times until i was not okay w him being so normal as if he didnt do anything wrong so i asked him what are his intentions and i was ready to pet go of him finally then he throws the bomb of i was thinking we should get back together i cant lose someone who loves me fr. And since then i hoped and believe things will be different. Boy ive never been so wrong about anything before . HE ACTS LIKE I DO NOT MATTER AT ALL . Its a fucking disaster rn and if i try to fix it he will end up saying stay or leave . Its eating me upfrom inside i dont know what to do . 

Relationships

Guys what do you think about this matter? Well, so there is this co-worker of mine. We are very close. Today after work I decided to staybin office and do my homework before going back home. He left but after 15 minutes he called me and chatted with me for a while. What does that mean?! Why would he call me when he met me few minutes before? 

Confusion

My parents brings groom for my marriage every now and then. Ofcourse i dont wanna get married but whenever i ask my bf to let me tell me about him to my parents he says “pls give me sometime i dont have a job right now, i am working really hard. Just give me few months. The moment i get a job i will be the first to bring my parents to your home” 
What should i do ? 
Breakup??  

My boyfriend and i are dating for like 8 months... He was my best frnd before then he proposed and i said yes...but now it feels like complicated..he asks for nudes...and sex.. Idk is it okay to ask or not..but i don't like that...and he is not ready to tell anyone about our relationship.. He wants to keep it secret.. Even from closed ones..he is not ready to tell his parents.. He says tell my parents first...so i doubt that does he really love me or not.. Is he ashamed of me... And imp thing that our casts are different...is our relationship will end on marrying after... Or just 7 8 yrs of togetherness and then family prblm so breakup..idk what to do.. I can't breakup with him because he will not understand and will get angry...idk what to doo.???!

So, i am getting all the anxiety from past few days. I am a 27 year old girl, eldest in the house. I have the responsibility of financing my sister's education. I have only few savings as i spent all on her studies and govt job preparation. At this point my parents want me to get married for which i am mentally not ready. My bf's parents are very strict and they denied for our marriage. Even if i marry my bf i will have to live alone as his job is in Armed forces. I want to switch my job and want to settle in a better way. The idea of marriage is making me feel low. I am not able to think of how much my life is going to change. Being the responsible one, i will always have to carry the responsibility of the relationship because my bf thinks i can do it better. What if his parents don't accept our relationship, i think it will affect our future as i don't want him to give up on his family. And i am having a trouble deciding what to prioritize first. I am just thinking but not able to perform.

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