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Vidhi 2 @vidhib

I just passed 10th and the thing is I’m hella confused about what next!
The thing is my parents wan me to pursue arts and prepare for UPSC and I don’t have any interest in UPSC stuff
On the hand, ever since I was a kid I’ve always been fascinated with the space research stuff and I grew up liking and wanting to work in a space company like ISRO or NASA but I don’t how!
I did my research and found it’s not easy to get in that field! But I really want to feel what des it feel like to know more about space and sciences
But then the question is, “what next?”
The thing is I was also attracted to music since my childhood I also wanted to be a singer as a child but then as I grew up i got to know about how society treats singers I decided to quit my dream of becoming a singer or making music but but when I think about it now I feel like I did wrong
Music is a very big part of my life and helped me in a million ways and I wish one day I’ll help someone with the music I make
But then what about my career in astrophysics and space research?
What about the dreams and expectations my parents have from me ?
What if I couldn’t make a good future?

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Anonymous

What exactly u want to do let me know we can sort it out for sure

Sahil gupta @sammiiii

Well i think you can do both as here i have a friend who is singer and writer made his room into his own studio and doing job for his livelihood. And as far as it’s about pursuing between science and arts. Just tell your parents you don’t have interest as you said here yeahh it takes kind a patience and confidence sometimes with these decisions but look for what will keep you going with the same interest you are going to start.

Vinit Mehta @vinitmehta201...

You can do anything just need to clear and empty your mind first and write it down in notes and check your possible thing which you can do at the moment and focus on present situation and think positive…

Vidhi 2 @vidhib

Well that’s a good thought but it’s not practical when you have to decide between your career while keeping in mind that whatever you choose should fit your family’s financial condition and making sure your parents will support your decision too
And the thing is I can’t communicate with my parents cause you can say I live in a house where my thoughts were never considered and I was always wronged by my parents so I developed a habit of not sharing anything and now if share such a big thin with them I’ll definitely be fun topic for them to discuss over tea they will simply say I’m still a kid I don’t understand what’s good for me and they are my parents no one can think good of me other than them and I’ll simply nod and agree infront of them but deep down I oppose to every word they say but I just sty silent so I won’t have to answer them.

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Anonymous

U take some time to think if there’s anything that u can do in upsc…if no then tell your parents… bcz if u do smthg without interest…it will b difficult to accomplish + will b a depressing agent… qnd yes look at other things / opportunities that are available… talk to more people who are elder experienced…and then take ur decision…no matter what decision shld b urs…u just need to listen to wt all things are there and then decide for urself

Vidhi 2 @vidhib

Actually if I want a career in astrophysics and astronomy then I’ll have to go through the toughest exams in india or even abroad and I’m not sure Incan do it cause no one will suggest a girl with 87% in 10th boards to aim for something big like in think + elders won’t understand what I want and I what I like so their advices are not useful for me (saying by experience)

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Anonymous

I personally scored 86% in my boards…n am doing smthg that was denied by all…but i just made it clear if not this then ntg…and now studying for it doesn’t drain my energy…pl do what you need to…don’t even think of what ithers hav to say…are they going to take care of ur life later when things aren’t okay? Ask them…

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Anonymous

It’s okay…i only said to listen to all but just take ur own decision… if others can achieve it then u can too remember that… only if u have that constant urge to get through it!💖

Vidhi 2 @vidhib

Thank you very much you don’t know your word mean alot to me!!

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Anonymous

Am glad to know that…fire it🙌💖

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