 I just needed someone to talk to but basically I was talking to this guy sorta for abt 3 months and abt 3 days ago I was texting him as I normally do and I told him that I couldn’t hang with him because I have sorta strict parents he said it was fine he was going through something but wouldn’t tell me so I just told him that I think he should have time to himself but I worry abt the having strict parents changed everything idk

Ty sm I just don’t know what to think like should I keep thinking he that things changed and he moved on or..

Does he responds to your texts? Or he's like keeping you in seen... You gotta be crystal clear in every decision you make in life... Ask him what's wrong and tell him you're expecting an honest answer from him... I hope you'll understand what's wrong with him.

Hey,pal.
Why don't you talk to him and find out if he is okay?

Overthinking

I met someone online, really liked his company. After 2 months of constant talking, he just stopped talking to me. Let’s call him X.

I felt very lost and hopeless for 2-3 months after that. Then he calls me & wants to become friends again. Meanwhile, I became really close to someone else who filled in the gap. Let’s call him Y.

And I met Y first and we became really close. In fact, we’re very comfortable around each other. He helped me get through some of the toughest moments of my life including borderline depression. Recently, he confessed to me & I like him a little too. v platonic again.

Soon after, X was in town & we met too. Totally platonic excepting holding hands (although he said he wanted something more). But I was so angry at him because he’d ghosted me & he gave me an explanation after 8 months. I wanted to meet him to tell him that I don’t want to engage in his company. Instead, he said he likes me & wants to take this ahead. Of course, all my feelings came back and I couldn’t hold back. I feel like I want to forgive him but his mood swings are erratic. I have 10 days left in the city & I don’t know who to choose & how to get over X.

I told X that it’s too late now & I’ve met someone else. but the ‘if’ always remains. What if he hadnt left.

I know I’ll regret being with him but he stood me up. And it’s been a bad phase. And I cant think of anything else but how to get over it. And Y has been such a good friend. Although I dont feel so strongly for him but I do love his company.

Am I cheating on any of them???

Breakup

My parents are from u.p. and living in rajasthan from many years so I born and did schooling and college here. My bf is marwari.he has huge family like this is my grandfather's brother's son.and many other type of relations.in our family we don't talk to these relatives.and these marwari people just dont want to understand other cultures and even don't admit their own flaws.when my bf told his family about me and that my parents are from u.p. his family said that u.p. people are so cunning.his father already asked me via his sister that am i really want to marry him or just playing.I mean.. with my experience these marwari are more cunning. Sometimes i think that if i marry him will i be ever can adjust in them.

Relationships

So yeah it has been pretty difficult since I have broken up with that guy....I know that relationship was toxic n I did the right thing by breaking up with him....but a part of me couldn't able to let go him....I'm still in love with that guy....it has been 1 year since we broke up but I'm not able to move on...it's kinda frustrating....Little things remind me of him....just don't know anymore.....I want to move on but I couldn't..everytime I try ..I fall harder for him again 

Love

I am in a relationship and it's going good. But as my partner was not able to give me time because of his professional commitment I felt very lonely.. I recently got a call from my ex and we started talking.. Almost evry alternative day for an hour and i felt occupied by something but today just  now I was having a conversation with him and I ended up kissing him virtually and i feel terrible for this.. I feel as if I cheated my boyfriend and this burden is not letting me sleep.. It feels very heavy.. May be while talking to my ex I got attracted and I started thinking about him and this ended in this way.. But just after I kissed him I realised no this is not what I want, it didn't feel good.. This feeling of cheating on my bf is making me hate myself. I hate myself for not being loyal to him.. I feel like a cheater 

So im in a relationship and i feel like my bf is not interested in me. Like all we talk abt in our relationship is about him. And i kind of feel left out. I have made sure that he feels loved and he feels good about himself but that is not the case with me. I love him so much but I dont feel loved. I dont know what is wrong and what do i do? Any advice? 

My ex who broke up with me unfollowed me all of a sudden. It kinda made me sad. What do i do

Quick doubt! 

These questions have been bothering me a while, and I know I cannot be asking people of opinions or decisions I had to make. But, I believe that we all have walked different paths in life and somehow what I’m going through will be something that majority of us has faced. 

So here it go, last Christmas my best friend proposed me and I said yes. We started living together from Dec to Feb and in the month of February he relocated so it’s Long distance. 

After he moved things changed, he wasn’t spending much time with me, and that big change did bother me a lot. I tried communicating with him about what I was feeling but it always ended in a fight.But I always blamed the situations and I never left his side or even thought of ending the relationship. I mean it’s the long distance. 

Fast forward to 1 month of Long Distance. He took a trip with his friends ( I don’t know them ). And, while he was on the trip he didn’t talk to me and I’m completely ok with it but he didn’t call and wish me on my birthday. It would take what 2 min to call? I was waiting waiting and waiting. And when I called to ask him about it he said he couldn’t call me. I was upset but I let it go. 

Next day, he said he wants to end things bc he cannot be in a relationship right now bc of had financial issues with family, he needs to figure out his life and so on. I was so hurt and my mental health was down. I couldn’t sleep or eat, I’m not being productive all day. I felt like I was easy to give up, I felt used and betrayed and a lot more. 

I always had hope that things will work out I understood he was stressed he blocks and then unblocks me. It’s a never ending cycle. And I have fear of being abandoned, so every time he unblocks I used to tell him that it triggers me a lot and he blocks me anyway later. 

On going through all of this, today I noticed a picture of him with a girl, she was hugging him tight. I don’t normally have doubts or insecurities. But, he said he doesn’t talk to his parents , friends or anyone. He said he felt stressed on figuring out his life, he said he needs to prioritise himself and he can’t even spend 5 minutes of his day talking to me. And I’m sure the picture was a recent one from the trip. 

I feel rejected and I also noticed that his best friend who was following me on Instagram has unfollowed and removed me from his followers list. Should I consider this as a official breakup and just move on? 

Is that possible for your ex can be your friend?

For me no, how about you? Please comment your opinions 

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