I just have one question… Why can’t I be her? She is just like me, my age, makes her own music etc. but she is pretty and skinny and biracial so has the nicest skin but I just have pasty white skin and a chubby tummy no matter how hard I work out. Why does she get to be her but I’m just me? Why does she get her songs on the radio, her face online, money and friends and a job with the biggest production company. Why does she get a family that will move around and support her why does she get a boyfriend when I have nothing but depression, anxiety, addiction and so damn many problems. Why can’t I be her too?
You can’t be her
Because you are you
Stop comparing yourself with others…you are beautiful , gorgeous…and the next thing don’t look down on yourself…love your self, accept yourself…then only you will see how much beautiful and gorgeous you are…
Thanks for the kind words but I just don’t understand why I can’t get my music out there, why I can’t have those things because maybe if I did I would be happy?
Start focusing on urself… you will be happy with your flaws with your own self
I’ll try :)
Vinayak @nji8
I love your qualities.
thank you :)
Majority of the people in my country are biased towards white and fair skin(though i know its wrong to look down upon one’s own skin colour)…there are people here who wish to have skin color like u…
I who have always been quite skinny and petite used to envy people who gained weight just like that.(now i love and accept the way i am).
So basically we have all hated our bodies for no reason asuming others have perfect body and skin. He/ she might be going thru something you might not even think of in ur wildest dreams.
We’ve all got problems to deal with but your god given body and skin shouldnt be one, if ur doing okay and healthy in life. Learn self love. It has helped me alot. Hope you’ll embrace ur beautiful self❤ isnt this beauty all about?!
You’re right. I guess it’s just hard to see the beauty in myself, you know? But thank you fro your kind words. I’ll try to see things from that perspective.
Yes and dont forget to love urself😊Just like we would uplift others, we need to uplift ourselves too.
