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Anonymous

I just found my closest friend is cheating on her 3 yr relationship with another friend of mine. My whole belief system is crashed. I don’t know whom to believe anymore.

I always thought no one can do such things where they know they are completely wrong and they’re hurting someone so badly and still doing it.

Cause it wasn’t just once but it’s she’s in two relationships at the same time for a couple months now! Even my friend knows she has a boyfriend. She’s been lying to everyone around her. How could she do this!?

Are people really like that? Bad to the core?

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Anonymous
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Literally… Such a disgusting woman she is… Even my friend is doing that, even her bestfriend became against her and God she deserves it… She deserves even worse πŸ˜”

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Anonymous
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My real question

CAN PEOPLE REALLY BE THAT BAD?

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Anonymous
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To be very honest yesss some are but not everyone! N u need to find out the ppl see according to my pov insan pe jabtak vishwas mat kro jabtak tumhara dil satisfied ni hojaaye ki yes he/she is the right one becz log bht sweet sweet baatein krke dusro ko apne jaal mai fasaate hain nd u need to be prepared what’s wrong n what’s ryt for uh… Lots of smiles to uh βœ¨πŸ’•

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Anonymous
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Maybe she had a toxic dysfunctional home . And the affection and love she is getting from those guys she doesn’t want to miss j
Out on that. What she is doing is not acceptable and maybe talk to her about this. Hope she understands!

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Anonymous
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Yeah she has got some family issues.

Should I talk to both of them or only her. Cause both of them are my friends.

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Purva @jessica

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Talk to both of them. if they want to be In a relationship the girl should break up with the other guy. Because even if we kinda understand why she is doing it but it’s still not acceptable and is wrong.

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Anonymous
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I talked with them. They realised their mistake. Won’t be doing again.

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Anonymous
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Btw really thankful for your advice. Helped me see things clearly. My world was shattered before.

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Purva @jessica

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Aree no problem. Just sometimes people develop certain habits unconsciously because of trauma. To be honest nobody is β€œBAD” sometimes they go through things that makes them make wrong decisions this is what I believe!

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Purva @jessica

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That’s great! :D

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Anonymous
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Yeah I believe so too but such incident made me question it.

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