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Anonymous

I just found my closest friend is cheating on her 3 yr relationship with another friend of mine. My whole belief system is crashed. I donโ€™t know whom to believe anymore.

I always thought no one can do such things where they know they are completely wrong and theyโ€™re hurting someone so badly and still doing it.

Cause it wasnโ€™t just once but itโ€™s sheโ€™s in two relationships at the same time for a couple months now! Even my friend knows she has a boyfriend. Sheโ€™s been lying to everyone around her. How could she do this!?

Are people really like that? Bad to the core?

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Anonymous
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Literallyโ€ฆ Such a disgusting woman she isโ€ฆ Even my friend is doing that, even her bestfriend became against her and God she deserves itโ€ฆ She deserves even worse ๐Ÿ˜”

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Anonymous
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My real question

CAN PEOPLE REALLY BE THAT BAD?

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Anonymous
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To be very honest yesss some are but not everyone! N u need to find out the ppl see according to my pov insan pe jabtak vishwas mat kro jabtak tumhara dil satisfied ni hojaaye ki yes he/she is the right one becz log bht sweet sweet baatein krke dusro ko apne jaal mai fasaate hain nd u need to be prepared whatโ€™s wrong n whatโ€™s ryt for uhโ€ฆ Lots of smiles to uh โœจ๐Ÿ’•

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Anonymous
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Maybe she had a toxic dysfunctional home . And the affection and love she is getting from those guys she doesnโ€™t want to miss j
Out on that. What she is doing is not acceptable and maybe talk to her about this. Hope she understands!

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Anonymous
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Yeah she has got some family issues.

Should I talk to both of them or only her. Cause both of them are my friends.

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Purva @jessica

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Talk to both of them. if they want to be In a relationship the girl should break up with the other guy. Because even if we kinda understand why she is doing it but itโ€™s still not acceptable and is wrong.

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Anonymous
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I talked with them. They realised their mistake. Wonโ€™t be doing again.

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Anonymous
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Btw really thankful for your advice. Helped me see things clearly. My world was shattered before.

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Purva @jessica

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Aree no problem. Just sometimes people develop certain habits unconsciously because of trauma. To be honest nobody is โ€œBADโ€ sometimes they go through things that makes them make wrong decisions this is what I believe!

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Purva @jessica

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Thatโ€™s great! :D

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Anonymous
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Yeah I believe so too but such incident made me question it.

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