I just feel ashamed when my mom offers me food or anything while I m studying because I feel I don’t deserve that as I left my job couple of moths back for my higher studies and I failed to crack entrance test to university and me dumb guy is living my life on my father’s money like I don’t deserve this living, this food, this care from my parents I just want to get out and get in some college to complete my higher studies but I don’t want to compromise for small college I failed at one exam I have 4 remaining even If I crack one out of that I will be at a good position but… I m not confident about that I feel damm ashamed when I eat food at home what should I do…
Failures or Setbacks are Learning of Life from which we Grow, one thing is for sure that you are positive and doesn’t take things for granted.
Look within yourself about the Potential and passion for whatever you are trying to achieve, if not there are plenty of things in life.
Cracking an exam requires 50% Luck 50% Hard work.
It’s not about exam eventually I will get somewhere but it’s about guilt I feel 24X7 at home
Embrace that guilt, it will help you grow further than ever , cause if you know the guilt of not doing anything then to remove the guilt you’ll be doing something.
Exactly i m just trying to study as much as i can
Hey, first of all, before you read this message, please keep away your thoughts and exams and all aside and read it.
Life is very Uncertain. No one knows what happens when. You might have read stories of a Rickshaw person getting through IAS, whereas a Tea Seller becoming PM. Do you think they reached here without failures? When you couldn’t make it through one of the exams, why are you feeling like the test is going to decide your fate? Always learn from your mistakes. You have taken such a bold decision of quitting job and trying for some better career options. You know how much proud your parents will be, that their kid is able to take decision on what is good for him and what is not. Remember, a kid is never a burden for their parents. You are one of the best gifts that ever happened to them. Don’t make them upset about you. Have your food and don’t think so deeply. What would happen when you don’t eat? Will it make you succeed? No, it will only keep on inking your mind that you are guilty.
Put all this trash out of your mind, and focus what you have started. Don’t give a thought about anything else, else you know you would be worried and you may fail just because you are concentrating on the things that really aren’t.
Go ahead, do what you Love and make your parents proud.
Best of Luck
Thank you soo much buddy
Hey I think I can talk about this as I myself took a gap year for my MBA studies. But I didn’t score well and hence I took not so too college. And I would tell you whenever you feel that way just think of why you decided on doing further studies. It will help. Because after that when you get a college of your choice everything will feel good. Your patience and hardwork will be rewarded. But you have to be goal oriented. And honestly times have changed. Now there is no age limit of starting a job. Because higher education is much preferred and appreciated. Plus I am sure your family doesn’t even have a thought about it. Just do your best.
Even i left my job for mba but i m afraid now if i land in lower tier b school I won’t be top notch which i want to be because I haven’t did anything great in my life till now just a normal below average student