I just can’t get on good terms with my Father
It’s just I can’t I have tried many times in Every way but I can’t . Mainly I can’t sit back and let my father say anything to my mother . Iykyk what all happens if a quarrel starts in a family . It’s like a Chaos in the house. . My mother is senstive and my father just keep on shouting and shouting with false accusations . I just don’t get it and I spoke in between because I can’t tolerate it now seeing all this from a young age now I am able to distinguish between right and wrong so why should I just sit back and zip up my mouth . Like my paternal side just takes my fathers side whatever it is right or wrong I just can’t hold back about it . What should I do I just can’t tolerate anymore and Its like a mess in my mind and I can’t concentrate on anything , whether be it studies , relationship . What should I do please can anyone give by advice or suggestions , it would be a great help to me 🙏🏻
okay. Maybe I can relate to it as this used to be my home scenario. What I did was, I started pushing my mom to not tolerate what my dad tells her. If she feel she is not wrong and if he is putting wrong accusations on her then I used to tell her to confront him and try to shut his mouth too. And if it goes beyond, I or my elder sister used to get in and ask them to stop and always blame my dad because he used to be wrong and no one use to support my mom.
And even tried to complaint to people who were from moms side and were in good terms with dad so that they can talk to him and take a stand if he is wrong.
It’s a long story altogether. Do you wanna connect?
Moreover, what my therapist said was it’s not your job to tell your parents what to do and what not. What you can do is just tell them how you feel and make them realise that you are mentally affected with all this fights and stuff. And please prioritise your studies. If it’s hard to concentrate then try to go to your friends place for studies or local library or garden nearby for your studies.
Actually all the things settle for sometime but afterwards they are all like that .I just run away from here . Literally I can’t tolerate it 🤦🏻♀️
Yup 👍🏻 I can connect btw are u a guy or a girl ?
Wanna connect tomorrow ?? As it’s late today .
Yeah, no problem whenever you are okay!!