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โš•๏ธDepression

๐Ÿง‘Anxiety

๐Ÿ˜ฐStress

๐Ÿ’—Relationships

โ€บBreakupโ€บThought

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Anonymous

I just brokeup with my gf . I dont know if what i did was the right thing or wrong . If its not not to much to ask can anyone help me figure it out? I just dont feel like going to anybody

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Anonymous
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why you brokeup

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Anonymous
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I have said in the comment below . Sorry if im being rude i m just not in a mood rn

amal prem @amalprrm

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First of all, I hope you didnโ€™t do anything wrong or bad that hurts her. Maybe she couldnโ€™t find something that she was looking for from a guy so she might had to end the relationship. But that doesnโ€™t mean you are not enough. You just have to embrace what you have in your nature. No one can be good enough for all people. Everyone has a different perspective.

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Its nothing like that bro. She wasnt able to prioritise me in her life. We had a fight recently when i told her i felt not getting care and attention from her. Now she is not sure she wants a realtionship with me . I felt like an option coz the one time i needed her support she wasnt there for me so i broke it

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Perhaps she had her own issues to deal with or didnโ€™t know how to help you. Did you try talking to her about it? If yes, did she regret it? If yes, maybe you two can think about giving it another chance. In any case, give each other some time to cool off. You can reach out to her later, politely asking her how she feels about this. Remember, only she has the answers to your questions. Try to gain clarity from the conversation. Donโ€™t blame or defend, just talk like two normal adults would. And be compassionate and donโ€™t jump to any conclusions without hearing each other.

amal prem @amalprrm

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Yeah, so she made her decision and you mad yours. Dont stress on that frnd

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kd @kdd

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I know itโ€™s difficult right now, but you will find love again, trust me. You deserve better! Remember, you will never have to convince the right person to stay with you. Let her go and move on. If itโ€™s truly meant to be, it will be. Donโ€™t overthink and focus on your healing. Seek help from friends and family. Try to keep yourself busy. Also, ask yourself whether this was the right relationship for youโ€ฆ good luck!

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kd @kdd

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Itโ€™s okay, we all go through it. Take your time. But know whatโ€™s right for you. Try to learn from this experience. Good luck! :)

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