I just broke up with my girlfriend of about 5 years, and I’m having a really rough go of it. I loved her so much and I wanted to be there with her. We had been having issues in our relationship for a while but I had accepted who she was and did my best to meet that. She ended up cheating on me and I’m just having a lot of trouble coping with all of it.
It’s probably a mix of the closeness and comfort she brought me, and how that is constantly what makes me sad. I jus not feel like it’s my fault and if I had done more I could have made it work.
I know it’s not healthy to think that way but it’s what surrounds my mind.
I think I just need someone to talk to and connect with who truly gets me.
Hey! Up for a convo?
Sure! Thanks for asking. It’s nice to see a platform where you can express your feelings to others.
Exactly.!
How are you feeling lately?
I’ve been very sad lately. When you have been with this person for as long as it was, everything in your life reminds you of them. I know it’ll get better but I’ve never experienced loss like this before and it’s hard to deal with those emotions.
Can totally relate to! Going through the same phase and let me tell you it is going to be better. Try keeping yourself busy and vent it out to someone you trust.
I really appreciate the advice. It’s nice to see we’re not alone in all of it.
You’ll be okay. And the best part is you know you’ll be okay. high five
Don’t waste your time thinking about a cheater.
I appreciate the advice. I know it’s what best but the emotions I feel are still so raw.
Yeah. But at least you know what you had was real for a while. :)
I won’t lie and say it’s going to be easy. There will be times when you’ll miss her and want to go back to her but I hope you stay strong.
Don’t worry you’ll find a girl good enough for you!
Thanks, i know I’ll get there.
Just gotta keep chugging through it.
