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I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. He is very sweet and loving but I know for sure he is not the person I want to marry. We both grew up in different circumstances which has made us very different people and I do not like some of his characteristics. I was very very sure of breaking up but its been a week and Iโ€™m feeling really down and I miss him. I dont think I want to get back together but its just I dont have any friends to talk this withโ€ฆ I want to cry but Im not able toโ€ฆ When I recall my time with my bf he was very very loving and he loved me the most in the worldโ€ฆ Im also upset for breaking his heart๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ’” though he is a sweet person I was not able to accept him completely. He was even ready to change everything about him, to make this relationship workโ€ฆ but I still couldnโ€™t see this relationship moving forwardโ€ฆ did I make a mistake? I feel like no one else would ever love me like he did ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ and it gets reallly reallly sad sometimes๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž I just need some emotional support ๐Ÿ˜”

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Anonymous
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Hey shall we connect?

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Anonymous
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I wish I could read the deleted comment

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Bhavna P. @bhavna_pande

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Hey, I understand breakups can be really tough. Itโ€™s completely normal to feel a bit all over the place, especially when you were sure about the decision. Missing the good times is part of the process.

Navigating relationships is tricky, especially when thereโ€™s care involved, but things donโ€™t quite match up. Letting go is never easy, even when itโ€™s the right thing. Take your time with those emotions, and donโ€™t hesitate to reach out to friends or family for support.

I get it; emotions can be a bit of a rollercoaster. If you ever want to talk more, Iโ€™m here for you. My counseling services are open if you want to dig deeper or just need someone to listen. Hang in there; youโ€™re not alone in this.

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Anonymous
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Thank youโ€ฆ means a lot!

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Anonymous
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I also got dumped in the same way ๐Ÿ˜‡ but after thatโ€ฆ I got a wife who is an angel. Who takes good care of my mom and dad. she is so caring of me.

My stupid mind still keeps thinking about the past. and I am here for counselling.

Letting go is healthy is what experts here say.

Be well, heal soon.

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Anonymous
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Thank you!

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