I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. He is very sweet and loving but I know for sure he is not the person I want to marry. We both grew up in different circumstances which has made us very different people and I do not like some of his characteristics. I was very very sure of breaking up but its been a week and Iโm feeling really down and I miss him. I dont think I want to get back together but its just I dont have any friends to talk this withโฆ I want to cry but Im not able toโฆ When I recall my time with my bf he was very very loving and he loved me the most in the worldโฆ Im also upset for breaking his heart๐ญ๐ though he is a sweet person I was not able to accept him completely. He was even ready to change everything about him, to make this relationship workโฆ but I still couldnโt see this relationship moving forwardโฆ did I make a mistake? I feel like no one else would ever love me like he did ๐ญ๐ญ and it gets reallly reallly sad sometimes๐๐ I just need some emotional support ๐
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Bhavna P. @bhavna_pande
Hey, I understand breakups can be really tough. Itโs completely normal to feel a bit all over the place, especially when you were sure about the decision. Missing the good times is part of the process.
Navigating relationships is tricky, especially when thereโs care involved, but things donโt quite match up. Letting go is never easy, even when itโs the right thing. Take your time with those emotions, and donโt hesitate to reach out to friends or family for support.
I get it; emotions can be a bit of a rollercoaster. If you ever want to talk more, Iโm here for you. My counseling services are open if you want to dig deeper or just need someone to listen. Hang in there; youโre not alone in this.
Thank youโฆ means a lot!
I also got dumped in the same way ๐ but after thatโฆ I got a wife who is an angel. Who takes good care of my mom and dad. she is so caring of me.
My stupid mind still keeps thinking about the past. and I am here for counselling.
Letting go is healthy is what experts here say.
Be well, heal soon.
Thank you!