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ayushi @ayushi08

I haven’t talked to my best friend since Saturday. When I told him I m coming to India we started planning things about where to meet and stuff. But when the new rules came out saying we would have to quarantine for 7 days and I am going to India just for 14 days, I told him that I will tell him whether I will be able to meet him or not cuz I have some legal stuff to do which will take up time and after that I m back home, I won’t have much time there cuz of the quarantine. And when I told him that he was IF YOU WANTED TO MEET ME YOU WOULD DO ANYTHING BUT YOU DONT WANT TO MEET ME. And I just didn’t want to explain the same reason over and over again because even before something like this has happened.

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Anonymous

Well call him when you are home, may be at dinner time or in the evening and tell him " if u are my friend, then u can come to meet me " but i m not sure if it works

ayushi @ayushi08

Maybe but it’s always like that with him. I always have to explain stuff to him and now I m just done

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Anonymous

So u don’t want to be friends anymore??

ayushi @ayushi08

I have no idea it’s been a week since we talked and he hasn’t even bothered to contact me.

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Anonymous

Well i know he is your best friend ," best friend hote hi kutte h yrr… inko jitna bhi bol lo smjha lo krni inhone apni hi h or jb sb kharab ho jata h toh aa jate h muh uthake"

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Anonymous

Call him and ask him directly, you dont need to overthink alone… he should know that it’s bothering you nd he needs to stop doing it…

ayushi @ayushi08

I have to agree on that

ayushi @ayushi08

Yes probably

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Anonymous

Yeah u don’t need to think alone… waise bhi kbhi kbhi inko pyaar se nhi. Gusse se hi smjh aati h baate…
Or tera best friend h yrr ek do gaali bhi de degi toh i guess chl jayega

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Anonymous

Tension lena band ko or call kr ke clear kr le

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Anonymous

I mean you do need to look at this from his perspective as well. He’s probably sad that you left, bolta nahi hoga but when best friends leave it sucks. And now you probably haven’t met in reallyy long so he just wants to meet you, that all. And I do agree with him, time nahi hi hai aise possible nahi hai. If you want something bad enough you will find time for it.

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Anonymous

Dude agr milna chahta h or miss kr rha h toh voh khud bhi aa skta h milne as she doesn’t have much time in India ,usko bhi smjhna chahiye
( not the writer)

ayushi @ayushi08

I do agree but as I did tell him and after the quarantine ends I will tell him if I will be able to meet him or not. It’s not like I m saying no to it.

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Anonymous

Lol I’m sure it’s understood that he can meet her, she can meet him is the same thing. Kaun kiske paas milne jaayega isn’t really the issue here

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Anonymous

Issue yeh h ki voh bhi milna chahti h or isliye time sync krna h unko bs but her best friend is not talking to her… which is not good … gussa krne ka yeh kon sa sahi time h???

ayushi @ayushi08

But now I don’t know what to do

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Anonymous

Yrr mai toh yeh bol rhi hu ki tu hi call kr ke usko puch le… tera best friend h itna hakk toh banta h yrr

ayushi @ayushi08

I guess

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