I have very small circle of friends. Recently me and my friend both going same phase of break up.
We both always spend time together and we used to discuss about our feelings.
After 3 month she get in relationship one guy. And the time we spending became less. We I gt to know about their relationships I told her I’m happy if she happy with her relationship and I don’t mind if you spend more time with him.
But the only thing I feel sad, eventually I left out alone. One day she asked I’m not express my feeling and I told her last time we got have same mind set, we used to check out each but now I choose to remain silent as you we don’t talk so much about this. But she said I’m refuse talk about my feelings, one day I was so depressed I can’t move my self. But she left me alone and went to lunch with her bf. Then message me sorry I’m living you like this. My concern is here sometimes she can’t spend time with me that’s okay I can understand but at the same time she not allowed me going alone anywhere. What should I do now
See i get ur situation 1stly if i talk abt ur frnd with time priorities change and if shes not allowing u to go alone maybe she still care for you and wanna be with u but in end shes not able to do so ,so in that case i wont tell u to shut ur frnd out or anything ill just tell u to focus on urself go out a little meet new peeps come out of same circle of life itll take u deep in dark sides…
Yes she stills care for me but I understand the priorities but when I want do something alone she doesn’t let me that. She knows me I don’t have bunch of friends and the same time she can’t be with me. Even she don’t check on me sometimes and I still understand her and I’m not complaining about this. I just want be alone sometimes.
I know u r not complaining about it n i understand what u r saying thts what i said u should take out sometime for yourself which is a basic human need to hv some time for themselves