I have two guy friends in college. From the first year of college…we got along really well…they used to make jokes…and we used to laugh…they gave attention to me… would call me every now and then…they used share every plans with me and include me. But now I’m in third year of college…they don’t respect me…they make fun off me in a way that I don’t like it…they always make fun of how I look…they don’t include me in there plans…they make fun of me in front of others.
And I just stay quiet and smile…so that I won’t destroy our friendship by putting this issue in front.
Can someone please tell me what to do?
💯💯
just_me_express... @not_a_loved_one
Once I talked to them, but they said…you are just reading too much into it.
Ujjwal @ujjwals
Leave them. Make some mature friends.
just_me_express... @not_a_loved_one
Gonna do that
s singh @chasha
U didn’t need opinion the way u r i think u just leave them nd move forward life is full of surprises so get ready and try new things
just_me_express... @not_a_loved_one
That made me feel so much better
See, the thing is you are together for about 3years now, and it’s like you have become a part of boys group. And boys do this all the time, pick on one of the member of group at all times. See I get it at some point it starts bothering us, and boys usually don’t get it, they behave like it’s all normal, nothings going to change, it’s how the boys are.
So if you’re getting uncomfortable with this behaviour, make them listen to you, tell them that this is bothering me, making a bit of fun among others it okay, but please don’t cross the limit in people. They’ll listen to you, explain this to them in a way which they’ll understand that you’re having a bit of problem with the behaviour.
just_me_express... @not_a_loved_one
I’ll try because I don’t want this friendship to break
It’s okay just tell in a way that they’ll not act weirdly, just go with the flow. Start with if you are my friends you’ll have to help me in this thing that’s been bothering a lot lately. And just spill it out, and while explaing this just keep yourself calm. It’ll work out.
just_me_express... @not_a_loved_one
Yaa… thank you for your reply
