I have something to say and it’s about my body, I wanted to talk about this for a long time, please dont judge me.
I have a chubby stomach but small waist and thick thighs with wide rib cage and hip dips and also wide hips not because of workout but because my hip bones are genetically wide but I am not underweight or skinny but neither am I fat, but when i tell some one that i think i am fat they are like you’re not and when I tell someone that I am not fat they are like no you’re and know I am confused and hence this made me insecure about all these parts of my body and I dont wear clothes of my size, my whole wardrobe is filled with baggy clothes even my boyfriend once asked me that why do I wear baggy clothes. I know some people might think that omg you have a perfect body why you insecure but guess what I am and some days I just dont wanna look at my body because it just makes me feel weird !! Lately my mom started buying clothes for me that are of my size, before wearing them and going out I thought 10 times…
I have also been made fun of because of the size of breast, girls asking me to are they even there or like do you boobs even exist and then laughing it’s not funny fine it’s literally not funny !!!
Sweetieeee, LISTEN TO ME.
Society has a way of fucking people up. Society hates mentally stable people and will do anything to make them insecure, just like them. If you dont believe me, take your situation for example. Everytime you tell people something, they always state otherwise.
Now listen buddy, you’re PERFECTLY FINE and no matter how hard you try to change yourself according to what everyone wants you to be, people will still point out things about you that is completely false and that you dont wanna hear. Its going to happen no matter what. Now I know insecurity isnt something that goes away within a day, but you need to believe that YOU’RE COMPLETELY FINE and you dont have to change anything. Dont give a fuck about what anyone says or you’ll spend your entire life being exhausted and really sad. You’re perfect the way you are okay? Fuck what everyone else thinks. <3
I am literally crying, you so sweet !!😭😭
I am sorry that you’ve to go through this. I know it’s difficult sometimes to feel confident in our own bodies no matter how much we try. It’s a journey, but let’s begin with knowing that IT IS WHAT IT IS. You don’t have to fit any standard body type and certainly not feel about it. Like you said you’ve been putting on baggy cloths for so long but not your mom bought clothes your size, how about wear them at home, get comfortable with them and appreciate what you see. You don’t have to immediately put them on and go out there if you’re not ready enough, but also remember there’s nothing that you need to be ashamed of or hide from, do it for yourself girl! You so deserve it. Sending love ❤️
You guys are so precious I love you!!!😭😭❤❤
So much love right back at ya ❤️
