I have people in life whom I really love and care forโฆbut when I text them to start a conversation, it feels like I am disturbing them. I donโt get the same response, the same interest that I have for them.
It hurts deep.๐
I feel the same.
Sometimes I feel like Iโm just overthinking about this.
But deep down
I had this fear that they had changed and Iโm not in their priorities anymore
Absolutely!
And what is most hurting is that when they say that they are here for you and when you want to talk to themโฆnothing!
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Well in my opinion there are 2 reasons for that. Number one maybe theyโre not really interested and that means stop investing your time with people like that. Lastly, sometimes when it seems like something is off or like theyโre not look interested, maybe something is troubling them. One thing I learned is we should check our friends mental health before sharing our problems. Because whenever they wonโt respond or theyโd have a really brief respond. Weโre start thinking that โdo they not care about me.โ So by that weโre focusing on ourselves that we didnโt even ask them if they had the emotional capacity to deal with our problems as we sure they have their own too. So donโt overthink to much, maybe they having a hard time too.