I have only liked one guy in the past few months, we had a fight and he has ignored me since , he likes my posts ,sees my stories. I want to send him a hi . to see how things are and what happened cause its fucking my mind .Should i text him?

if you like talking to him then dont let him swade him away.

atleast my mind will be fine . what if he rejects me and i feel more sad, i mean he likes my posts and sees my stories .


but its been more than a month that we havent hhad a conversation



ya i am also looking for the normalcy , i mean it is bad to just end that thing on a bad note . Atleast i should know ki what went wrong 


not uptill now, i will do it tommorrow or maybe this weekend.i dont know i am scared of rejection. i really like him.damn these feelings.

I have also decided cause i am scared i will send him a hey and wont keep seeing if he replies or not. Shit i am so screwed probably he is not even thinking about me.i dont knowwhy do i have these feelings.dayumm!!

thanks , i really wish he does reply. Thanks for sharing your story.

Also please keep rooting that he replies :) dayumm i am literally asking to a stranger to root for my relationship- i guess i like him way too much.Shit i am so nervous😯😯😯


hey i sent him a message and he did reply , we have been talking in intervals since the whole day, we didnt really discussed what happened last time i just said long time no meme and he was like ikr … i am not bringing that topic and maybe taking things slow and not expecting much , but my mind was too tense and now its not. What we have from now on i dont knw also i dont know what our relationship is going to be, but i am happy that the more apprehensions i had about him are now over. Also thanks this couldnt have been possible if it wasnt you who made me comfortable to speak up … Thanks <3

Relationships

I had confessed to my friend while he was away that I liked him. He told me that he just thought of me as a friend and nothing more. We continued to stay in touch and he recently visited my city. I will soon be leaving the country and he said that he remains unaffected by it. One day, he asked me if I thought of him as a bad friend and I said "yes". He continued to go on and on about how I was a special friend, I am a good human etc. He asked me why I was sad and offered me a hug. When I refused, he smiled and said I would regret it in the future. I heard him say under his breath "You like me right?". Then he went on and on about how he isn't attached to anyone. He reiterated that he "cared". He started caressing my hair and asked me to do the same. He held my hand and interlocked fingers. Do you think he likes me or he is just being a 'man'. Is this his last hurrah moment? Should I keep him away or go with the flow? 

Friends

Hey, I haven't been feeling great today. I ended my 3 year old relationship last year in May because I felt I gave in a lot to the relationship and my partner just didn't, we're in contact now, we talk, i feel i haven't moved on. I mean he was just too unaccepting of me, whatever i did for him, I never got anything in return. I felt the relationship was one sided. We've broken up several times and got together again but i don't want to this time, whenever i find myself talking to him, i start remembering the old days . I don't know what to do

I miss him so much. I wish there was something I could do. It’s only been 5 days since the breakup. He was my first everything. We still love each other and it hurts to think he’s in pain too. We live 2 hours away from each other. We work all the time and could only see each other once a week, if that was even possible. He hates his job and it makes his mental health plummet. On top of that, He has a lot of unresolved trauma and mental health problems and I wish he would stop refusing therapy. I wish he’d go to therapy and work on himself and try to be the best partner for me because that’s what I did for him. I wish we could have the future we both wanted and that he’s move to my city like we’d talked about. Not because I wanted him to, but because he genuinely wanted to. My heart just breaks and I feel like he is the right person at the wrong time. 

Breakup

Umm I need a help from a girl...

As I am a girl too.
Case: the spark died, he doesn't have time for me especially... Took me for granted... Doesn't give a shit abt my existence... Don't even want to leave me... I just don't like to be in a relationship with him but I love him... And there's a little chance that he is messaging n all to other girls too... 
Idk why I everytime apologies him and come into a relationship back again... I am toxic af ik that... But I just can't bear it anymore 😭

I can't and I don't want to cheat him... So I just need a lil help... I will tell that personally... It needs your social like ig only(i don't need, you just have to talk to him, if face doesn't matter to you)

Please reply if only you could help me... That's the only way he could leave me... 


3am Thoughts

how to get over someone who was never yours to have????

One Sided Love

About almost a year ago, I was in a terrible headspace due to certain circumstances my family, friends, career, and everything seemed to move away from me in different directions and I felt paralyzed, unable to do anything except just watch them leave, and losing myself slowly by each passing day.  however, I still had apart of myself deep down which had this hope that I'd see the brighter side someday, and I did. I found this guy online, tbh I was skeptical initially to even talk to about general things keeping in mind the fact that how online conning is so common nowadays and also because I am an introvert and was really vulnerable to let my walls down to anyone that fast. I started out with general life and no preconceived notions or motives towards him or myself. he came across to me just the way he had described himself , sensible, funny, and loving. however one day out of nowhere he asked me to call him and that he needed some emotional support and had a rough day, and I did call him, we talked for the first time but surprisingly it wasn't awkward even for a person like me, he told me about his situations, his emotional grievances, family issues and so much more, and I helped him in the best way possible and I got know a part of the real him. he was sensitive and cared for people in his life. he had seen certain terrible things but despite that cared for others around him with utmost sincerity. so I as time passed by I started letting my walls down and he beautifully handled me with the utmost care, and over a span of 5 months we became best friends, he was someone i couldn't complete my day without and so was i to him. my circumstances were still the same and I was still facing the same issues each day but having him in my life provided a sense of unsaid security and safeness i was longing for. things kept on going in a good direction, our chats turned into calls, which turned into video calls and finally we even met. it was a beautiful experience for me, i was so overwhelmed to be present with him but i couldn't express my utmost gratitude and happiness to him. after that things were okay for a short while until he started restraining away from me, i tried contacting him several times but he seemed disinterested and cut off and every time he would tell me that he'd call me or text me but didn't. i was petrified i had seen people leaving like nothing really happened and wasn't ready to experience another time, but eventually, i did. he left, and hasn't returned ever since. and  i have been left behind with this gut wrenching pain that never seems to go away. i used to feel sad earlier and hurt but now i have stopped feeling things. it's not about him it's about the fact how easy it is for people to walk out on me, how easy it is for people to forget me and all this has lead me to a great self realisation that how i am not enough. my circumstances are still the same as the last year but this time the part of me that hoped on seeing the brighter side is blinded. i am blinded by the brighter side, i don't want to see it even if it's next to me, for who knows what magnitude of pain it has to offer this time and tbh i have nothing left in me. everything seems so lame, even writing all of this down like this. what's the use of anything and everything. nothing seems to keep me moving now. all that is left behind in me is a bruised body and an acing soul. 

Life

I feel very upset and small and insignificant.
My boyfriend of 4 years, I found him cheating last year and it broke my heart he flirts with a lot of girls and ignore it but when I found him cheating I tried tp break up but he started crying and told me excuses and I stayed. But at this point I still feel very broken. It makes me think about the years and efforts I put into the relationship, I lied to my parents to meet him and they've lost trust in me now. I could never meet him a lot because my parents are strict and I blamed myself for why he talked flirted with many girls. I feel like he'll never understand the amount of strength it took for me to stay in this relationship after everything he's done. I don't really know what I'm doing in this relationship anymore I've cried myself to sleep so many nights and I can't share this anybody and feel so lonely.

Boyfriend

I feel very lost. I broke up with my 5 year old relationship in March and I was in touch with him since then. But I met someone else, I like this person but I think I’m still not over my last relationship.
I’m not coming in the new relationship because I know that will not be fair to the new person I met. And this person understands that I need my time to move on and he is okay with that.
What am I supposed to do in this situation? How should I move on? Am I doing anything wrong?

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