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I have long distance relationship and we both want to marry but problem is that i am just 18 and she is 19. We both don’t have any jobs and we don’t earn so we have decided to have a good job and earn atleast we both can financial stable on our on money. I Am doing mbbs and i m in 1st year and she is preparing for B.Ed exam appearing in next year. But the problem is that her parents force her to marry but she always says that she want to get job and then marry and between her and parents always get argue on same topic and her mother always says that do work of home and she can’t study properly so she says to me that we will marry soon after I’ll get job means her… But the problem is mbbs is of 5 year and after that 3 year PG
And my family will not accept her but seriously i love her and want to live with her… Don’t know what to do…

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Anonymous

Long distance relationship doesn’t work my dear first understand him what he really wants then take any action…

Anonymous

Ya !!

Anonymous

Get married at 18…why?..when I was 18 all I wanted to do was chill , hangout with friends , watch lots of movies series , thought of marriage never even crossed my mind. You’re just too young for that.

Anonymous

Not at 18 well planned it for 25

daisyblah

I can understand budddy. We are planning the same thing too. The narrow mentality of our parents sometimes engulfs our happiness. Tell her to stay strong. Keep denying it firmly. They can’t force their way into marrying someone and if worst come to worst . Talk to their parents and tell them that you are doing mbbs will be a doctor soon. Earning lots of money maybe their mentality will allow them to be greedy enough.
Just if there is no caste Barriers again. Stay strong my budd

Anonymous

Yes , but caste barrier is there 😓😓 she belongs to SC and me OBC her parents will accept but not mine hence at last i have to leave my family for our relationship…

daisyblah

Don’t worry. I’ll be doing the same anyways i have more complications I’m gay🤣🤣🤣. See you are doing mbbs in such young age dude. I’m still trying to pass the NEET. Don’t worry stay strong