I have fallen in love with my bestie in 10th grade.My classmates used to say that he also loves u I felt so happy .My feelings on him has increased day by day but I had never expressed my feelings.it has been 5 years I still love him the way I used to(oneside).he hasn't talked to me for 2 years and now he don't even treats me as his bestie.If i call him he will talk nicely  but he has never messaged me or called me its only from my side.Fewdays back i got to know that he has girlfriend and that just killing me deep inside.It's hurting me a lot and I don't know what to do💔😭.I just feel like I want him and nothing else. It's very hard to accept the reality.I think so its too late..

Iam putting all my efforts to move on....I asked him once what do u feel about me ge said nothing.I said I love him....he said that its to late ....he also said that if he was not in relation he would have chosen me.....I don't know if that's true or not....or ge is just telling not to hurt me

Thank you.but i cant get it out of my mind

I hope you find someone nice… who deserves your love…

One Sided Love

I broke up with someone nearly 1 and half months ago. 

Initially everything was good and happy. We turned from friends to lovers. But as soon as we started the relationship I realized that he isn't giving me time. He would cancel plans , reply late. If he wanted to meet he would meet for a brief intimate time. I realized I was given the last priority after his friends and work. I always had a gut feeling that there is some other girl in his life but I am not really sure. 

I communicated with him that I feel anxious about our future. He said, " just think about the present". Later on I couldn't handle the feeling of being neglected. And I wished him all the best and decided to part ways. 

He accepted the break up, and never reached out to me again. I sit here wondering if I ever mattered to him, did he ever love me ? Will he never reach out ?Did those memories mean nothing to him ? Since I broke up I guess I don't have a say. 

I just can't stop reminiscing about the good memories I had with him. How would you help yourself from spiraling thoughts about your ex ? 

Breakup

I have a boyfriend. We have been together for 3.5 years. I have lost feelings for him from the past 1.5 year. I have no interest in the relationship. I told him this and i said that i wanted to leave him. He said that i can go but the next day he asked me to meet him for the one last time and i went to see him. He started crying and said that he cant live without me. I felt really bad and i said that not matter what i wont leave him again and i dont know if i am doing the right thing. I know its the right thing for him but its not the right thing for me. I feel so lonely. And theres this other with whom i talk once a week and i am extremely attracted to him. I dont understand this. I dont want to hurt my boyfriend anymore. Turns out that i am a terrible person. I feel tired of my life. Every morning when i wake up i think whyy did i wake up??

Boyfriend

I need help .......guys i just got text from my crush ...😆😆😂😂i dint knew what should I text next so i wrote. H r u ?!! Now what should I do .....i want to talk to him ...he texted after a month ....

Body Positivity

Ok so this is something I m holding up since a really long time because it is about someone really close to me but now it's getting on my nerve so the thing is i know a person who already have a boyfriend but this person hides the fact of having a bf and start talking to a very introvert and innocent boy and giving  him so much attention that he will end up falling in love, and it irritates me because that guy will get hurt really badly and i m feeling really trapped because I can't tell him the truth 
I don't know what to do 


Cheating

So here it is 

I met a guy on a matrimonial site and we dated for 2 months straight. For the first month everything was going well, he was all head over heels in love with me and the families got introduced and things were falling into place. I stay in a different state so, he took the initiative to come and meet me and gave time to understand each other introduced me to his family and the dates of wedding were being fixed. Then suddenly for last 2 weeks things changed. The moment he went back to Bangalore he started acting differently,on asking repeatedly he disclosed that he met his ex girlfriend as she was all suicidal and he was trying to help her out.....but then things started out falling out and out of nowhere he said me last night that he doesn't want to continue as he feels nothing for me and this left me shattered..I couldn't believe my ears. He just left with a stupid reason that he doesn't feel the connection anymore with me.

Emotional Abuse

I’ve been waiting for him to message me since last night. Been keep waking up every hour I’m hoping that he messaged but nothing.. I’m so tired. Should I even go to work or skit it today too

June 1, 2022

So there’s this guy... We met more than a month ago. We were getting along and were enjoying each other’s company. Until one day, he admitted that he likes me and wants to pursue me, and being someone who likes to say, "Why not?" for the chance of experience, I agreed. Things escalated like that, with him being sweet, understanding, patient, (can I say that he’s smart?) and with every green flag available, he raised and waved. I also opened up to him about my oath to myself of not getting into a relationship until I became independent and stable. He’s all for it. He’s willing to wait. And so he asked me if I could trust him and wait with him. I said yes, but was already perplexed internally. Slowly, I got this feeling of pressure. The dilemma starts here. It’s just that it feels... surreal and quick? I mean, he always puts forth the effort to let me know where I stand, and I do appreciate it. I really do. I do like him too. That was why I agreed when he asked me out in the first place. However, eventually, I feel that I can’t reciprocate the same strong feelings as he does. It worries me and it makes me feel guilty, since I know that somehow, I am responsible for what he feels. Also, I was open about this with him and we even discussed it again last night, but you know what, every time? He’d reassure me that he understands and he’s not pressuring me, and that no matter how much of a mess I am, he will help me untangle it. However, I still feel confused, unprepared, and guilty. What to do?


Conflict

He treated me like shit during the relationship. I know our breakup was for the best. Yet a part of me is holding onto the good parts, I’m still so in love I don’t know how to let go. I’ve completely cut him off but still a part of me is hoping we’ll get back together even though it’s so wrong. How do I move on?

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