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@vixi456

I have been researching about the symptoms and all the aspects of adhd and I think I’m pretty sure that I have adhd but I don’t have the guts to tell my parents about it to get it diagnosed. I feel like I’ll be disappointing my parents who are so nice. Sometimes I feel like it’s all just an excuse to not study, but deep down I am pretty sure about it because nowadays I can’t even complete a single task. And I have suddenly lost all interest in drawing which was my coping method since years. I know I’m good at it but when I sit to draw I just can’t. I’ve been distracted by sounds(person walking) and even the tiniest smell around me.

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Anonymous

You should consult a dr first if you have something to prove then your parents will also understand.

@vixi456

I want to consult a doctor too but I’m not that economically independent and I’m just a minor.

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@daisyblah

You know I doubt myself for having ADHD too. But my mom dad doesn’t understand these things they will laugh at my face if i told them. Also i too feel like I’m faking it
Now you are not disappointing your parents. Please consult a doc. They love you and it’s not your fault buddy. Trust me. Talk to them once okayyy. Don’t forget to drink water and go rest for a while okay

@vixi456

Ohh I see we’re the same😔
You should also visit a doctor secretly and then get the diagnosis and show your parents? Would that convince them?
Hope you’re resting and hydrating well too❤️

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@daisyblah

Are they would say the doctor is doing this for money. I don’t blame them because they don’t understand this.
Also there is no doc in my area it’s not a big city where i live. I’m coping with that. Slowly slowly 😊.
But you please like consult a doctor the meltdown from stress and the unproductivity and the guilt would cause real damage

@vixi456

I’m happy that you’re coping with it slowly 😭❤️❤️. I have also been following some great accounts on instagram which are really helpful
Some that I know are-“adhdactually”, “the adhd couple”
Hope this helps.
And yes I’ve been trying to build up the courage to talk about this to my best friend for now.
Do remember you’re doing great and I’m very proud of you ☺️❤️

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@daisyblah

You too buddy. Whatever they say I’m with you. Okayy.

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