I have been meeting a guy, we are on good talking terms. But occasionally, he invests so much emotionally. He does not behave like it’s a new interaction , so it should be light and gradual understanding of each other, rather he displays different moods. He’s suddenly sad, or angry, or doesn’t talk and expects me to take his excuses and be okay(even when I am not his friend or gf or anything, the conversations have just started a fortnight ago). I hate putting so much emotional labour in him. Why am I entitled to his mood swings ? He is so emotionally unstable. I think he would ghost me suddenly because he stops talking abruptly these days. I don’t understand how to deal with this. It is choking me
I would suggest you to confront him directly about this.
Maybe, he trusts you a lot, and when that emotional quotient is not being returned, he might be having this mood swings. as other person commeted, I too feel it’s better to tell your heart out. However if u think it’s too early, then wait and observe for some more time. If it still continues, tell the truth to him
I think it’s too early for me to reciprocate. Thanks for suggesting me to wait
