I have been married for 7 years and trying to conceive since the day we got married. Because I like children. We have undergone a lot of treatments, three cycles of IUI , but still no success. I have taken a back seat in my IT career and took up some simple jobs in the hope that I would conceive and this type of job would help me to balance my work life better. I do not know whether this decision is right or wrong. I have been a achiever till before my marriage and secured top positions everywhere. Now I feel guilty and frustrated that I took my job for granted and did not give my best. Now I am terrified to attend any new interviews, in the fear of failure. I feel I have failed at both my career and my personal life. My mind is completely stressed out. And I am not able to concentrate at all on my work. Nowadays all i want to do is mindlessly scroll though all the social media posts and watch random you tube videos all day everyday. I am not giving my full potential in my work. and I feel guilty for that. My mind is completely fogged to learn new things. I start some new online courses , but i leave it half way without completing it. I really wanted to come out of this cycle. And I dont know how to do this.
look noone fails in their life its our mind which tells us if we achieved that goal its success or not its failure either u learn or u win
don’t let failure decide u are not doing enough u are doing enough as much as u can things don’t workout as u want and its ok
we try fail or try again then try harder u cant be fail until or unless u want to if u are thinking u are failing u will fail if u think i am learning u are growing
things will.change u will be in better situation dont give up on urself u are worthy of Everything ❤️❤️❤️
Aarti @aarti_sharma
Are you interested in work from home ?
Sadly People abandon their children for so many reasons. Try adopting that, raise that child as your own. I have seen people leave their child in hospitals and staff have to take care of that.
Hey! I’m sorry you’ve to go through this. I am glad and I appreciate that you are aware of the potential you have. You have been the person who was capable of doing things you aimed for, and you still have the potential to do it. Sometimes in life we are more drawn towards making several things happen. Just because at some point you chose having a child, doesn’t make you a failure in your career. You can still make bigger things happen in your life. Start with thinking that it’s never too late, you are right on time for a comeback. Try decluttering your thoughts and set your priorities. Take a social media detox and surround yourself with some good energy. Probably talk to your husband about the emotional roller coaster you’re in. We are here for you, but his support and motivation counts. Keep looking for opportunities, you are more than capable of doing bigger things in life. Much power to you, sending love ❤️
Did you try IVF. Your doctor will explain you about it.
If you are tired and addicted to YouTube there are medical channels for mothers. you can refer. but always seek for proffesional medical advise.
Too much work also may lead you to sorrowing. Focus on work and treat yourself with good thoughts ,foods and relaxed life. Stress causes to miscarriage.
Life is full of frustration and dedications .So don’t be ashamed of yourself. we learn ,we do jobs, we marry, we make babies, we grow them, then we are getting old. that’s how life goes. If you don’t have any financial problem don’t focus about job .
At this time your most need is to get pregnant. Please try gardening. Grow flowers vegetables. Stay in positive mind. take yourself away from phone. Look at the nature.
medications , foods and mentality do a big job on this. Please be patient and seek for professional help. have only hope not stress. If the both are agreed you can adopt a baby. their are thousands of babies who are in need of lovely mother. But the will is totally up to both of you.
