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Anonymous

I have been living with my college frd since 1 year and we have been physically engaged once in a while but we have never been in a committed relationship and we both agreed to it .
But from past few months he’s been more possesive about me he won’t let me to talk to my school frds which is 1 or 2 frds men I had and we will meet once in a while for coffe or lunch for that also he makes it big deal and today I told him not to interfere in my life and he was like I’m living with you so I get to choose who u speak and so I told him to leave and he was like I can only live if I allow you to go out huh…??? Wtf allow I’m an adult I can do whatever I wish meeting my friends once in a while I don’t think it’s going well …
He was like ur only living here because of me like he’ll I’ve been supporting him and paying like 70% for the living
Now he wanna move out and I said I’m fine with it .
Do u think I should deal more maturely I don’t know help me…

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Anonymous
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He is so toxic.How are you still living with him?

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Anonymous
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Compared to my family he’s not that toxic and also he treats me good and try to provide everything

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Anonymous
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Do you love him too? I mean did you feel bad when he asked to leave you?

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Anonymous
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I don’t feel bad I felt revealed but just a little hard feeling of living alone but I know I can do this on my own

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Anonymous
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Then go for it girl🌟
Don’t think anything else
You will feel better in the end

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Anonymous
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Yeah thanks

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Anonymous
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Would you like to connect if you have no issue?

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Anonymous
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Yeah

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Anonymous
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Well you should clearly state the first para. That what happened was not serious or anything. Maybe he might’ve mixed a few things or might’ve assumed something.

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Anonymous
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He knows about my frds and everything there’s nothing to assume he just want me to himself only …

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Anonymous
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Reiterating might help. But the real question to ask here, then, is do you want him? And if so, can you tolerate this thing of informing/ permission when going out. Most people won’t. You have the questions in front of you. Think about them and make a logical decision. πŸ‘

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Anonymous
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No I don’t want that kind of person in my life I do miss his caring pampering but I know I can do better so this time I’m letting him leave

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Anonymous
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Abe maze kro life ke agar kuch bigde toh sambhal Lena

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Anonymous
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Ek toh relationship bhi nhi hai, upar se hakk jma rha . Chal kya rha

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Anonymous
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Jab ap relationship mai nahi ho tab wo kaise hak jata rahe hai aur apki jindagi unhe hak jamane ka koi right nahi hai

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Anonymous
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He’s said that because he’s staying with me he had every right which he took by himself without my concern

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Saath mai rehne sai ji kisi ki bhi jindagi uske according chalne ka hak nahi hota hai bura maat man na lekin ap jiske sath ho wo thora ajeeb aur apko tang kr raha hai

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Anonymous
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Yes I’ve had enough too that why I took this step I told him to move out if he wanna act this way

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Good ji good to unho ne kya kaha

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Anonymous
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Since I’m not doing as he orders he wants to leave

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Anonymous
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Hmm bol do tab unhe jaane

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