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I have been in this relationship for 5 years. Before that we were classmates and best friend for two years. So in total 7 years and it surprises me how someone would not understand how much you love them. I actually wanted to settle down with her and have a family. But my faith has been knocked and I don’t know what is what anymore. How does people change overnight? Or they had always been the same, just acted different when something serves them right? How can that person throw you out after so many days and nights of love and promises? I am not lamenting. Just looking for the answers.

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Not everyone can be trusted, if you give them affection, they will grow closer, but there are people that use you for clout. People like to use others for their own benefit, in the modern days, its definitely possible. Maybe they’re just a kuudere, not everyone values a relationship as much as you do, and sometimes, you just have to accept that.


I completely understand what you’re feeling. I’ve been through the same thing as well. Sometimes you got to lose somebody to find yourself. I’ve learnt it the hard way.