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masculine_brat @masculine_...

I have been in relationship with someone I didn’t make a video call it’s for 3months and they still didn’t come on video call. They say it like that’s where dirty stuffs starts. Like we will go for video sex chat. It’s wasn’t my intentions. I have waited to see her eyes. But Idk
But she sents me her pictures. She was so beautiful but Idk why she isn’t coming on video. And at somepoints. I have a thoughts like am I really talking with a girl whom I saw on pic which she sent me. Ofcourse anyone can get a thoughts like this na . I have controlled my urge to see her eyes. But she didn’t whenever I asks about a video call. She fights with me. Ignores and idk is this relationship or am I asking anything more from her. I literally said come for 10secs video call show me ur eye and leave. She said she don’t like it. Idk then I was drunk yesterday and asked so many questions. Fought with her literally. Bcz i couldnt I’m not saying this for mentioning it.but I bought her a mobile when she says her mobile isn’t working good. When my mobile sucks
Idk what is this. And we talk everyday from the morning to the night. If my friends calls me to go out. I no to em these days. Bcz she fight with me like she ain’t my priority. On Saturday I went for a lunch with my friends. And she got angry and asking me questions like where are you. Then I have to buy stuffs at night. And she says go and stay with ur friends. Idk what is this. Then she cries and says I’m not giving her my time.

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Anonymous

Doesn’t sound healthy to me i feel like she will ditch you . Is she emotionally dependent on you ? And lots of insecurity?

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masculine_brat @masculine_...

Yes.She is dependent on me emotionally
And she has a lots of insecurities. And she want all my time and attentions.

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Anonymous

There’s psychological term for this kind of situation, I don’t remember it though you need to talk to her about this because same thing happened with me my girl was totally dependent on me for every kind of emotions i gave her all my attention but because of some misunderstanding we fought and she blocked me , we ended even tho we both desperately wanted to be together. She needs to have some emotional independency, like hobbies or something and slowly slowly she needs to understand your side too that you want to do vc and all .

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masculine_brat @masculine_...

She is so sensitive and she doesn’t have mother and father. Staying with her brother. I tried my best to be with her all the time. But video call was my request then it becomes demand now. Now I said I will give her my world if she can do video call.

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masculine_brat @masculine_...

I have tried it bro. She starts it from the beginning. She isn’t understanding me. I have tried that you said. I made her understand and if I stays with her. She is being happy. If I leave for outing with my friends. She feels like she isn’t my priority. For my friends. I’m not hanging out with em for 2 months. I went only twice with em. In 2 months. If it’s regular. I live with em. We go out everyday. My social life is not good. It’s so disturbed. She got convinced lik3 accepts that my friends are my priority. If I go out with em for thrice twice. And if I stay with her for 6 days. And if I go out on Sunday. She say like she is a pickle to me. I use her when I need her. I was like what. I’m so exhausted bro

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Anonymous

This is toxic sooner or later this will end she’s not mature .

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Anonymous

Yes bro. But I scolds her very badly yesterday. I wasn’t wrong. I didn’t see her and I was in love. And I said there is only one solution for everything. Video call. And now she says there is nothing to talk. It’s all end. I won’t come on video call

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Anonymous

It ends I guess bro. I said there is only one solution for everything. That’s video call. But she is asking for my address to send mobile and talking about pay back money to me.

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masculine_brat @masculine_...

I replied but it’s not getting approved

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Anonymous

I told you it’s kinda scam if you feel like taking your phone or money back do it
In relationship you are only putting effort if she cannot even show herself then there no future and she already ended scam used you for attention

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Anonymous

She scammed you

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Anonymous

It’s not about sensitive she’s immature and she will end relationship and your demands are reasonable

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Anonymous

Hmm she is immature. But I can’t change her mindset

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Anonymous

Take care

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Anonymous

Thank you buddy. You too🫂

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masculine_brat @masculine_...

Yeah it’s me bro. I forgot to switch it as profile. And yeah I’m getting it now. And nope I didn’t see her from this app. I met her on rave app.

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